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Pleasuring a Provider
slowhand74146 2 Reviews 7194 reads
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I enjoy making sure my partner is having a good time and if at all possible achieve an "O".  However, I don't know how important this is to providers.  I know many providers are excellent actors and I appreciate their enthuisasm.  If a provider doesn't climax is the session a bust for her? Or does it matter at all?  I doubt the feedback will dissuade me from trying to provide sensual pleasure, but maybe I won't have to beat myself up over it so much if she doesn't come.

Yasodhara796 reads

If you want to pleasure a provider show up on time, hygiene all in order, and pay in full.  Don't ask her questions about her personal life and leave when the time is up or offer to pay for more time.

She will have been greatly pleasured by your presence.

Now go have fun!

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literbike2454 reads

You got it. And if it actually happens like it did to me yesterday..:) Fucking eh!

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hound_dog692927 reads

As mentioned, the best O is from a full envelope. That said, someladies do fully enjoy themselves with somewhere clients.

So, my thought was if providers sometimes find themselves - errr - frustrated after certain sessions...

I know women experience orgasms and the lack of them differently from men, but this would seem to be a real job hazard.

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ed20002947 reads

If it is important to you that you know whether or not she is acting then you will be expending needless energy trying to figure it out and may be disappointed more than is necessary. If you are a gentleman and are otherwise a good client then quit worrying whether she is acting or not, just play along. It’s all part of the fantasy. If you find yourself with someone that just isn’t “getting off” from you or you actions then that’s the time to just lay back and let her pleasure you. She’s probably really good at that.

Keep at this long enough and you will find the ladies that orgasm very easily or often. You will find the ones that absolutely enjoy what they do. You will find the ones that adore you for who you are and what you do for them. You will also find the ones that are excellent actors.

If your time spent together wasn’t fantastic then don’t repeat. It’s her loss not yours if you do not repeat.

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Bostonguy57879 reads

I don't think you will find too many women who don't enjoy sex. Still, doing it for a living, and on demand, is a bit different.  Some gals just will not allow themselves to fully engage in the act and really enjoy. Others will enjoy it more as they get to know you better. Still others may love the sex but sometimes just are not in the mood for it by the time you get to them.

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zisk530 reads

as long as you stay within her set boundaries, the session is about your needs, not hers. If your need includes giving her pleasure, then continue to do so. Its her job to make you feel like a champ, whether you are or not.

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literbike715 reads

To the cool men who chimed in on this post...you all have it right, in my opinion. And very nicely put to help out a new dude and the ladies as well. Much appreciated...;)

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siciliacapri785 reads

I agree...a great provider will make sure you had a good time!  It is your time and whatever you would like to do with it ;)  If it turns you on to see me turned on, then I'm in!  I love love love love what I do.  It is not for everyone, if it was easy everyone would do it....right lol BUT for those that do it, and do it well, I'm sure do enjoy their sessions as well as their client.  xoxoxoxo

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Autumn Breeze758 reads

I would add that all of the answers I have read are very good and true but speaking for myself; I enjoy my sexuality very much and I get to the big O without any problems. So of course I enjoy my work and experience the big O most of the time.
Sure there are some sessions and/or days when I don't but it is rare and it does necessarily mean that I didn't have a an enjoyable experience.
When I do have a less than desirable experience then I refuse to accept another date from the client. That doesn't mean that he was a bad client, it just means we didn't click. I hope I have contributed something worthwhile.

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slowhand74146584 reads

This discussion is really good.  I appreciate everybody's feedback especially from providors.  The answers are pretty much what I expected, but the providor's perspective on what makes a good session is very helpful.  Most of those comments center around is mutual respect for each other.  I would like to continue to see more feedback on this.

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