How does a newbie get references if I haven't seen any escorts? I really don't feel comfortable giving my Employers name and #. Open for suggestions.

after you have read the Newbie Manual (Self-Help Center).  Also, agencies usually have less stringent screening requirements.

go pack through the posts on this board.  It's all there and doesn't need repeating.  You'll need to go back a few pages but it's all been said and isn't hard to find.

I agree.Also,some verification sites are better than others depending on what city you are located in.Once you are signed up with one you can search for newbie friendly providers.Or you can go with agencies in your area.
Have fun!

You are going to have to give up some personal info...whether to a verification site (P411, RS2K, etc.) or to the lady herself (if she's even willing to deal with you).

As has been said, read the newbie guide (self-help), read the old posts here, join a verification service and then have some fun.

I know I bring them up all the time I sound like a spokesman for them but they made it so easy for me. I sent them the info, money, and directions on how they could contact me at work. After that its been open-season. I only meet providers through p411 so far.