you have contacted a first time provider..she says she would love to get together..she wants you to get a hotel room for the two of you in the area..she will meet you there at a given time once she knows where..do you trust her and book the room hoping she will be true to her word?  or do you think she is playing you and politely decline?

interested in seeing her or not?  If you're not gonna see her you should quit wasting her time.  Do you think you are ready to TOFFT?

Now, I'll give you a piece of advice.  If you do decide to see her, you should have a plan "B" and maybe a plan"C" so you can still make use of the room just in case she doesn't show up.

That was going to be my advice also. But the problem with that is if you schedule with someone else and the girl shows up then you are wasting another providers time because you will have to cancel with them....not good.

Shes a new provider so who knows if she'll show up much less give good service. If you really want to see her, I would pick a hotel to meet but not book the room til she shows up and you like what you see.

Meet the girl in the parking lot of the hotel you are planning on using.

Reseve the room ahead of time so checking in doesnt take but a couple of minutes.  Have the lady wait in her car for a few minutes or if you feel comfortable, walk in together as a couple.  

But if you wait til she meets you at the hotel before you pay for the room, you are not stuck with a room you can't use because she NCNS.

Now if the session isn't any good once you get alone in the room, thats between the two of you.

Do hotels allow you to reserve a room without paying. In my area they don't. They will take yor credit card and charge you for one night for the reservation. You can call ahead and make sure they have rooms available for last minute walkup check-in, but you can not reserve the room unless you pay. (at least that's the case with all the hotels I have dealt with.

However sometimes it is possible to have a plan b or c, by getting prescreened by some ladies, who don't mind you contacting them last minute (provided they are available of course--you don't expect them to be waiting for your call.) the main thing is that they know you are only prescreening and may or may not contact them for a session. Another option is a lady the client has seen before, might be available last minute, or getting prescreened by a reputable agency, and using them as backup plan.

When I reserve a room, I do have to use my cc but it isn't charged.  I have until 6pm usually to cancel the room without any penality.  When I get to the hotel, I pay with cash, not the card.

If you are meeting the lady in the evening and you want a last minute room, still meet at the hotel but just get the room as a walk in.  It takes a few minutes longer but still not that long of a wait.

I just dont see the point of getting the room first and hoping the lady doesn't NCNS or that you will be able to find someone last minute to out and play.

If a guy tells me he wants me to get a room in my name and he will reimburse me,  I dont get the room until we are both in the parking lot of the hotel.

Most hotels do have a 6pm or 4pm cancellation time with no penalty so you might want to make sure the hotel you book allows flexibility.

I work for a hotel, and what I suggest is getting a little prepay card and only keeping $5 on it. Book rooms with it so if you ever need to cancel, even if they won't allow you to cancel, they won't get any money from you.

Usually if a hotel is packed, and they try to authorize they will call you and then you can decide if you want to give them your real credit card to keep the room or not.

If you make the reservation directly with the hotel, the cc# reserves the room and you have until a certain time to cancel and your card will not be charged. I do it all the time, never had a major hotel chain charge me for a room.

I didn't mean for him to be double booked with another provider.  Only that he should have someone in mind who might be able to fill in the time if he contacts them short notice.  Double booking is never acceptable unless you are "booking a double".

Guess I should have expanded my thoughts a little more about the alternate plans.

I was just saying that every hotel I have dealt with, the cancellation policy is 24 hours in advance, otherwise you pay for the room. So my suggestion was to check if they have rooms but not to reserve it, then you can book it as a walkin. If you have hotels you deal with, that let you reserve a room and you can cancel with no charge, at 6pm on the day you are supposed to be checking in, then you are lucky! I have not seen that in any hotel I have dealt with.

It's always a roll of the dice with a new gal...

I'd suggest you get her phone number, talk to her for 5-10 minutes, and get a feel for her. There are so many variables up-in-the-air... some people are 100% honest/game. Others get cold feet. Others are playahs...

Anyways, I don't have reviews, have done this and have followed through. But phone-chat is really the key.