You do know who is paying whom, don't you?

Look, I know you want to view yourself as a "caring guy" but you can also take this sort of thing too far to a point where it becomes a head trip. You go to a provider to get your rocks off. They are great at that. But not all providers get off themselves for a variety of reasons, and you could set up a weird vibe if you get too fixated on this idea.

The best way to answer your question is to read reviews and find providers who are described as easily coming, or coming multiple times. Then you have a pretty good assurance of getting what you want.

You're also going to learn over time that getting to know a person is different from getting to know a fantasy. Sometimes it works out the way you want. Sometimes it doesn't. And it's all good.

-- Modified on 12/12/2008 3:16:39 AM

No need to make a point of it just engage yourself in the session..Every lady likes being pleased so you will find few complaints..One never needs to talk about pleasing when they are already in the act..

Kisses Haley

a question and answer period, or multiple choice exam. After you are already beginning to get intimate, there is nothing wrong with simply asking the lady what she likes, what feels good to her, or her favorite position. Make it a part of the game, rather than writing a script before you've even touched one another. Suggestions as you go along can be very erotic, and a bit more spontaneous.

As a VIP member check the reviews for DATY & such.  Not much need to discuss it.  I also like to give as well as recieve...  
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