still fairly new at this as I've only done it a couple of times, but I get performance anxiety during a session and am embarrassed about it.  I get it up eventually, but provider puts in a lot of effort.  Does this happen to others?

If I were you, I wouldn't worry about it too much.  If an occasional bout of performance anxiety is the worst of your troubles, you're doing all right.

Besides, if you are on-time, clean, and polite, most any provider would consider you a great client - ED or not.

The problem with performance anxiety is that it is a feedback type thing - you worry about it, so it starts to happen, so you worry even more, etc.  Accept that it might happen, but don't let it ruin your time.  Just figure that you'll find other things to do.    Good thing that most of these ladies are professionals.  They are trained for just such an emergency!

*that* is what the envelope buys.

remember this and take the pressure off of yourself

you really *must* check your ego at the door to enjoy this sport

Vitamin V helps with anxiety.  Even if you do not need it regularly.

Thanks everyone!  This helps a lot.  Almost like therapy.

Exercise, a little cardio will help and is good for your heart too.  Don't take too much vitamin V, too much can desensitize you so you take longer and loose it.  Choose someone you can relax with and have fun, start foreplay and let it happen naturally.

... it happens to alot of guys.  The main thing is that she can get you to relax and then there won't be any problems.  a GFE experience probably would work better for you.