Out of curiosity do you providers; consider your clients as losers?  A little new to the hobby, but sometimes I think providers just look at men who cannot get laid anywhere else and are desperate.  I am always polite, well groomed, and clean I strive to get the provider comfortable with me with good conversation in the beginning. Am I making something out of nothing? Thanks

in order to get sex.

Or some are single guys who either don't want to date, or haven't found the right person to date.

Sure, there are some loser hobbyists, but they are not losers because they are hobbyists.  One has nothing to do with the other.

Seriously, I won't fk a married man for free, so providing is the only way for me to make money, and not feel like a total home wrecker. Many men here are quite attractive and could easily get laid for free, but they don't need the hassle. Even the single guys I see, say the very same things. It would be one thing if a guy was stalking a provider for only "hanging out" with no sex, but that is not the case. We know what this is, and most are fine with that trade off.

I absolutely adore my clients and do not think of any of them as losers!  You are looking at the whole situation wrong.  People see providers for many different reasons.  It is not my place to judge anyone.  I have met some really wonderful people who have enriched my life and hope they can say the same about me!  A lot of the time, it is not about the sex...we provide so much more!!  Stop worrying and just enjoy yourself

I adore all my clients.... Everyone has there own reasons for seeing a provider .... Doesn't make any of them a desperate loser, EVER!

I fall in the "single guys who either don't want to date" category.

Not in the mood for it. Have no desire to be in a relationship. I can dial 1-800-Lets just fuck like animals whenever I want ! I don't pay them for sex...........I pay them to leave .

Loser , looked down upon ..........I don't think so .........I am your average dude. Average height and weight. I can hold a conversation, travelled the world and developed some software that a Fortune 100 company simply had to have !!!!  

I have never experienced any of these emotions from ANY lady I have had the pleasure of fucking. I LOVE being around them, we have a great time, show mutual enjoyment and respect and then go about our lives, just better off from it !

Very accurate answer Natasha.

You are saying what I am thinking.  These kind of questions get asked all the time, and the most vocal responses are never from the twenty-something's.  In fact, they are usually silent.  I have always thought that the young providers have to be amazing actresses, because I have a hard time believing that they actually enjoy being with guys old enough to be their dads.  Does not necessarily mean they consider these clients losers, but I can't help but think that it is real difficult to enjoy their time with the typical hobbiest who is often middle aged.  

I fit this profile and have been with the twenty something's and they have never made me feel this way, but I chalk it up to great acting.  Does not stop me from having a great time though, since usually we will never see each other again.  And besides, what provider in their right mind is going to admit that they think their clients are losers or tough to spend time with?  None if they don't want to damage their business.

"Sure, there are some loser hobbyists, but they are not losers because they are hobbyists.  One has nothing to do with the other."

THIS.

Lets differentiate between the two.

A hobbyist is a well-groomed professional man who is always respectful during initial contact.  Always shows up on time.  Is well-hygiened and nicely dressed.  Always respectful of his providers limits.  He is also handles the donation like a gentleman with no haggling.

A loser is a dickhead who asks if she will let him "fuck her up the ass"  when he first calls her.  He show up late wearing blue jeans and t-shirts.  He tries to haggle down her price after walking in the door.   He also gets mad when he tries to her to get BBBJCITM against her will.  He also has no sense of hygiene smelling like a sack full of assholes.   He doesn't tip either when she allowed him to overstay his time.  

I am a 41-year old single professional man with no desire for marriage much less a relationship.  I see providers to take care of my sexual desires.  My favorite GFE provider is a blonde 24-year old who squeels with glee everytime I call her and has sex with me like I'm the only man in the world.