Newbie - FAQ
Paying before doesn't relieve you of thr fact that you are paying for sex.
It's not as if LE will look at the timing of advance payment and not be able to connect the dots that this is prostitution, if that's your objective in doing this.
There is no upside to doing this. And the provider can always cancel the appointment, in which you are out the funds until she can see you.
Bad idea.
Hello,
I am concerned about LE. I've done a lot of research here so I know that going with a very well reviewed independent reduces a lot of risk. Is it possible to pay for services in advance using greendot or mail the payment. I would think that if you formed a regular relationship with a provider and the trust is there, then money isn't an issue.
Also, i may be in Canada for a vacation. Since everything is legal in canada, is it a good place to see providers and build up references?
but how do you know you will get to see her after you have given her the donation for her time? She prob will use the two-call method of directing you to her incall, and IMHO, you will prob not get any directions, much less hear from her again. Only pay a deposit in advance for a long date with someone you have seen before for a shorter date, unless you just want to give your money away. Sorry to bust your bubble Z, but that is not a good thing to do. How do you establish trust if you have not yet seen her???? C'mon, think with your big head, my friend.
Sorry if this seems harsh, but you are not being rational here. Paying in advance does nothing to prevent LE from being involved. You say you have done a lot of research here, but I have my doubts. If she is well-reviewed, you don't need to pay her in advance.
Swim
It's not harsh and if you'd reread my post, I mentioned that you would only do this after forming a regular relationship. You would establish trust by doing a meet/greet first at a bar. Additionally, if she is well-reviewed and you talk out the details, then she is probably not out to steal your money and risk a bad review.
I don't think one meet/greet for drinks is enough to establish trust, just my opinion. I think it takes more than one meeting for there to be trust enough to give her a prepayment for a date. Quality, well-reviewed providers are definitely NOT out there to rip you off, that is true. esp if this is their livelihood.
Swim
If you have established a regular relationship with a provider why are you worried about paying ahead of time? You already know she's not LE.
.....one date, or many. I ask for deposits for longer dates, and many gentlemen, forward the entire amount so that they do not have to travel with a lot of cash. I do have local genetleman that pre-pay three or four dates, so that they don't have to deal with the atm, etc.
If you are talking about one date, and you pre-pay, and she is LE you are then looking at interstate commerce violations, racketeering charges, etc. I would stay with ladies who are either reviewed, or one's that you can trace a lot of history through Google.
I have only played in Canada by private invitation, so I can't haelp you there.
Good luck!
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
It's not as if LE will look at the timing of advance payment and not be able to connect the dots that this is prostitution, if that's your objective in doing this.
There is no upside to doing this. And the provider can always cancel the appointment, in which you are out the funds until she can see you.
Bad idea.
Just stick with well reviewed providers.
Once you establish a relationship, most of my Favs allow me to operate old school. I find it's much more GFE.
I separate the correct donation prior to the meeting. When undressing, I place my pocket contents on the corner of her dresser next to my clothes. (The donation is on the bottom.) When I redress... I replace my items in my pockets, leaving the donation behind. I don't look directly at the donation again though I can see out of the corner of my eye. Often times in the back & forth to the bathroom & such it may disappear, other times not. If someone were to be observing, they'd have to watch our whole session...
I have had young nervious providers not like this arrangement. One swooped in to pick up the donation, apparently concerned that she was vulnerable to me pulling a fast one on her. She needn't have worried, but I let it pass.
HV
Make it easier for the girls that" give the money to their drivers". They wouldn't have to come in to rip you off.
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