just started, married and want to get on a good schedule of STD checking. Don't have a regular doc, is a urologist the way to go?

the internet for info.

There are a couples of good threads in National board about this issue from a lady's POV: http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=12&Page=1&Messageid=51004
http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=12&Page=2&Messageid=50868

Usually this type of issues are discussed in the National board.  You can use the Find Message feature there to check past discussions.  Some of them are extremely informative and insightful.