Question for providers: under what circumstances have you stopped seeing a regular? And did you just ghost him, or did you communicate your reasons?

I would stop seeing a regular if they cross my boundaries, overstay and don't compensate for it, if they short pay me,  stalk me to the point that they get obsessed and find my personal social media and message me there, if they think because we are "regular friends" they can try to do unsafe practices or even asked me about it.  
That's the reasons I can think of right now but Im sure more things would come up later on

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Would you also say Veronica you would stopped seeing someone when you realized that your personalities don't mesh like they would in a civilian relationship? Also outside of being compensated do you always keep in mind the level of compatibility and when that starts to wane then do you start gravitating away from interacting with that particular client?

I can interact with different types of personalities even tho we don't agree with many things, likes or dislikes.

Veronica, would you say that there is a level of dissent that you can have but still effectively compartmentalize and perform your role as a provider?  Also I am assuming that is what makes your effective and adroit while interacting with several people who might have varying degrees of difference of opinion.

and at that point, why would I even need to say anything? I likely said something several times by then, so yes I would ghost and if they continued on trying to contact me, I'd bitch him out.

Posted By: TurbayVeronica

Re: IMO  
I would stop seeing a regular if they cross my boundaries, overstay and don't compensate for it, if they short pay me,  stalk me to the point that they get obsessed and find my personal social media and message me there, if they think because we are "regular friends" they can try to do unsafe practices or even asked me about it.  
 That's the reasons I can think of right now but Im sure more things would come up later on  

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by various providers, and here's to my best guestimate why: