Hello everyone! This is my very first post here, and I do not know who will see it and who will be answering. I am fairly new to this whole "Hobbyist/Provider" universe. I am looking for my first real "date/experience". I am 56 and disabled, using a wheelchair (but not paralyzed)
A provider I really want to see has a website with a form to fill out. It requires TWO references from previous providers and current Employment information.
Obviously I don't have any provider references.....how can I get provider references until I actually see my first provider? The ironic thing is, the provider with the website form that I REALLY want to see NOW (or in the near future), who is requiring two provider references.....she sounds like someone I would never want to leave once I started seeing her, especially if all 137 reviews about her are true. I am not looking to sample every single dish in this smorgasboard/buffet of GFE escorts, that's just not me. I am willing to meet up with her in public, be frisked, polygraphed, whacked with a rubber hose, have my wheelchair sniffed by a police K-9, you name it.
I am as safe as safe can be.....and here is the real kicker. I understand FULLY the need for the provider's security and safety, I really truly do especially in this day and age; but that cuts both ways......If anything I am the vulnerable one in this scenario, I cannot run away, chase after someone, and my wheelchair is absurdly expensive (thanks to the medical-Industrial complex in this country.)
Help, and advice?