Hi,
I was debating an overnight with a provider I've seen before. Kind of curious for opinions on what the protocol is...in other words, should I ask if the provider wants to do an overnight and is comfortable with that longer time? It was a great time meeting her but it was a limited time vs. the time for an overnight.
it is MUCH different doing a overnight vs a one hour or 2 hour appt..
I would do a 1/2 day one first like a 6 hr one with dinner, show, etc and if that goes good, then go for the overnight lol
Before you lay out such a large amount of money you need to be sure that the two of you can get along well for a much longer period of time. 1-2 hours in the sack may have been fantastic; but ~12+ hours together you may be at each other's throats! LOL! A dinner date with some playtime would be a perfect lead in to a future overnight.
Don't go into with over expectations and just enjoy your time together. It's a fun night because there is 'no clock' and you get to know each other on a more intimate personal level. If that's your thing, I say go for it.
12 hrs? e.g., 8pm to 8am?
Some ladies post as little as 8 hrs on their website; some 10, or 12, or longer.
This is really something best done with a lady you've seen several times; preferably for at
least one long dinner date. So when you book an overnight - most probably the two of you will have dinner first and if things go well - maybe breakfast, too. A lot depends on how well the two of you connect during the overnight date and also what she has planned for the following day. Then timing can be somewhat irrelevant.
About 12 years ago I used to do overnights with a "Fave" while traveling to a specific city on business couple times a month. Her "start" and "ending" times for me (not her rate) varied greatly depending on her achool schedule, etc.
option on her website? If so, she's clearly comfortable with it, and likely prepared for spending that kind of time with a gent. If she doesn't, it may not be an option, but it wouldn't hurt to ask.
Caitlyn is right- you could find that you have nothing in common beyond what brought you together the first time, in which case it could be a very l-o-o-o-ng overnight. But I think we can usually tell from our communication before an engagement and during one if we would be compatible for a longer encounter, and from what you posted, you seem to believe you would like that much time with her. So have fun!!
I may offer him a discount if we had a blast!
Bottom line...sleeping with someone is nothing like being with them in the waking hours. It is a very personal and intimate thing that requires a serious amount of trust, and I would never do that with some guy I had only met once or twice.
You can still program in plenty of sack and cuddle time, but have time to do fun stuff like a movie, museums, shopping and sightseeing.
I've done that a few times and enjoyed it, and you don't have to worry about things like snoring, jimmy legs, or finding out what each of you really look like in the morning sun.
The trickiest part might be finding a hotel that will let you check in at noon, but you can start off with lunch and some sightseeing and then check in at 2 or 3.
I'll repeat what I think I said. First of all, an overnight date should be with someone you have seen a few times for regular hour or longer dates. You both need to feel comfortable with each other. If there is no chemistry, you will be spending a lot of money for a not-so-good encounter.
I have done a few and had really good times. We would meet, play a little, then go out for dinner, and return to some serious playtime before sleep. Do not expect to keep her awake all night so you can play, that ain't gonna happen generally speaking.
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Chances r she really wants to do one w you, if your askin n u just met . I'd say u wanna do it more than her, butt u should ask her how she feels bout over nights.
I know I sometimes bring them up with people when I a,m in mood for some. Or I mention it if I know I'd be ok with doin them with that client, I def promote them n bring it up.
I don't think there's any real "protocol" on this request. It can't hurt to ask. The response will be as unique as is every provider. Some like it, some don't. If you can afford it, this can be a cost effective arrangement for both parties.
I've never been a big fan of the brief encounter - it always feels too much like a mere transaction. The GFE approach can be much more pleasant and I enjoy the extended opportunity for relaxing and enjoying each other's company that comes with an overnight package.
I recently indulged in an overnight with a traveling PSE (although I didn't know it at the time of booking) provider where we were meeting for the first time. We met right after work and headed to dinner after settling her luggage and briefly chatting. After dinner, we shopped for snacks on the way home before playtime began. Since I had to work the next morning, we limited to a few hours and only a couple of pops before sleep time. Then once again in the morning before she made eggs benedict for breakfast before we had to head out. Overall, it was a mind-blowing experience I'll treasure forever.
So, there's absolutely no reason not to ask the question, especially if you already know and like the lady. Just relax and be yourself. There's no need to be nervous. You're just two people having LOTS of fun together.
