what to expect from an overnight stay with a provider.  how long is an overnight  (8,10,12 hours)?  how many times can you expect to bust a nutt with the provider?

Most overnights  I've done have been around 10-12 hrs..

All my girls know in advance that I will go 3 times.  Most of them are OK with it. I've never had and never will do overnight with someone I've never seen before. Overnights require special connection, and is a different ball game from doing 1 hr meetings...So make sure the chemistry is there..

Make sure you pace yourself properly with food and drink plenty of water. While I rarely consume any alcohol, I am OK with ladies have a glass or two of wine. Just know your ladies' drinking habits. You don't want her to be drunk and passed out, and you jerking off to CINEMAX...LOL.

Also make sure you let the lady sleep for at least 6-7 hrs...When the lady well rested, it makes the morning sex just that much better.....

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what might work out a little better, particularly if you don't know the woman very well, is to set something up from like noon to midnight.  That way you aren't "wasting" time sleeping.  Just make sure you plan some activities to do; but you should be able to expect a "welcome" romp pretty early into the "date", a "before dinner" romp, and then of course you have to have the "good-bye" romp.

Good Luck and Have Fun!!

If you've never been with this provider before, book her for a two hr session and see if there's a connection.

What if you show up and find out her pics are ten years and 100 pounds ago?  What if she has crotch rot? Bad breath? Gassy?

Or you find the conversation strained, you just don't have anything to talk about.

Any or all of those things could make for a very bad time and wouldn't you rather be out the money for a short session rather than an all nighter if you aren't enjoying yourself?

Most ladies would want to see you for a short session first anyway to be sure you are someone they want to be with for a longer period of time as well.

Each provider will usually define an overnight differently.
When I have done it, it will usually include a late dinner, and will last until the morning (maybe after breakfast), but you should discuss this with the provider first.
If you have never met the provider before, as people have suggested, it's usually a good idea to know if you and the provider will get along. A lot of providers will be open if you tell them you'd like to meet them for a few hours first, and would like to consider an overnight if things go ok. That way you can ensure that the provider is available for an overnight, but at the same time, you have a chance to back out if things are not quite what you expected.
As for how many times you can expect to bust a nutt, I'll tell you that once again it depends, but I'd say that you should expect probably a couple before going to sleep and one or two in the morning. Some providers are very amenable to some fun in the middle of the night, but it's probably something you want to discuss with them (unless you know them already).

vs. an "experience" based guy, overnights from most providers will probably not appeal to you. The guy who expects a fk fest is going to pay double of what a guy who wants an overnight with a natural progression of dinner, movie, art show, whatever, and activities in the bedroom will pay. This is why I stopped posting overnight rates, because it is not fair for me to charge one guy what I will charge the next based on their individual needs. I have also noticed my overnight bookings have increased because of this as well, so it was the right move for my business model.

I have a 10, 12, and 15 hour rate structure and that goes from relaxed to demanding, to the extreme with no sleep. My rates range from the low end of $1500 for a relaxed 10 hour to 3k for a demanding 15 hour with breakfast.

Find a provider willing to accommodate what you might need..you would be surprised at how many will in fact negotiate.

I will also agree with Naomi that you should not just book an overnight with someone you don't know..bad idea. I know so many providers who will jump on a plane for the cash to meet a guy they don't know, but I am not one of them. I at least want to know I can stomach you for an hour if I am going to be sleeping next to you lol. That goes for your end as well. You simply don't know what to expect on such a long venture.

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No matter what you are told here, the only thing that matters is what you and the provider agree to. Best to have an open discussion as to what you want, and/or what her rate includes. Nothing worse that waking up expecting a nice, slow good morning fuck, only to see the lady emerging from the bathroom all dressed up and saying goodbye.

zig

I paid 1200 roses. 2 cups and got to sleep with a beautiful women....nice.

I can't imagine an overnight with some that I have not previously met for at least a one or two hour date.

depends entirely who is relaxed or demanding..overnights are a two-way street..give each other enough room to maneuver..you will be fine..if it turns into a one-way street..expect a quick dead end..overnights are meant to enjoy each other..it never should turn into a fuck fest..respect for each other goes a long way..hopefully at least overnight..

I'm a snorer so overnights are pretty much out for me.  I wish they weren't as I love a good fuck first thing in the morning.  But I'm just too self-concious about the snoring bothering people.  A 12 hour date is a great alternative.  Gonna try that!

and no "break" so most providers are going to charge MORE for that type of date. My Day Rate of only "seven hours" is the same price as a 10 hour overnight. He might prefer a "Clock Free" or "Day Rate" but those are usually 6-8 hours max.

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My clientele in CA were for the most part overnights or weekends. I considered an overnight 12-14 hours or so, but at that time frame, I am not watching the clock. For me, that would include dinner, possibly a show, and breakfast, with our private time progressing naturally. I always expected a good night's sleep- 7 hours- and that was never an issue with my gents. They usually needed the rest too, especially after I was done with them. "Bust[ing] a nutt" wasn't something we "scheduled" in, but usually happened as many times as he could handle. I hate being awakened in the middle of a deep sleep for nookie, so thank goodness my gents weren't so inclined. But I adore AM sex, so I was always a wee bit disappointed if he didn't want that too (early meeting, early flight, etc.).

Have fun!!