I booked an overnight with a pornstar but she said she needs her own room to sleep is that customary. Also i am flying her in special she is not touring my city. I was told i had to pick her up at the airport is that normal. I have spoken to the pornstar and the agency i booked her through is helpubookher2 so i know its legit. But sounds like a lot for me to do. I also would like to know how many times i can expect to "get to know her" i am hoping at least 4 is that about right. Thanks
Ok, how long have you been hobbying? And how many providers have you seen? And let me guess, you've never been with this PS before ? While I've never engaged helpubookher2 based on what I've read on the PS board, they seem to have good reputation.
The standard reply from newbie hobbyists concerning overnites, is don't do an over night until you[ve sessioned at least once with the escort. Now the escorts will say "oh I've done overnights as a first date and they've been great" Yes that maybe true, but do you really want to take a chance it might not be so good. I for one, do not.
Ok, that's about all I have to add, except I'm dying to know how much is this overnite costing you.
Picking her up doesn't sound like a big deal to me but seperate rooms??...... you wont be getting any if she's not with you, kind of defeats the purpose of an overnight visit doesn't it?
I did once have a gal who wanted two beds because she has jimmy legs and thought she would keep me up all night; but if it is an overnight, then by golly I want to be in that room with her.
I do sometimes pick up and drop off gals at the airport, but that should not be expected either.
Typically an overnight has at least 3 "get to know you" (love that) sessions:
Once when you meet at around 8, then after dinner before bed, then a morning wake-up call. If you wake up in the middle of the night and want to have another session that is not unheard of. But how's that going to work if she's in another room?
overnight or longer... unless I had an hour or 2 together previously & knew we were compatible. Some guys report a thrill out of a first time encounter & have done fine they say. Picking her up is a fair request though is not a standard thing. On extended dates one must be flexible about privacy... she might want private toilet time, phone home to check in, makeup?... it varies with the gal. Separate rooms request is unusual... now if one is known to snore or have another night time issue, that changes things. I think either a suite or connecting rooms would be a requirement. If you are new, she can really take advantage here...by doing the minimum. Or she could surprise you. She might genuinely prefer to retire to her own bed for a sound & uninterrupted sleep & then wake you with a rousing session. But it's up to her what she chooses to do.
I really hope you are adequately experienced in the hobby...
Sounds like U'r gettin juiced. ha hahahahaha . . . .
Overnights are a great way to enjoy the company of a lady that you have previously seen, in fact, most of us prefer to try the overnight experience once we feel completely comfortably with the gentleman in question. Nevertheless, I have experienced overnights before as a first date and they were incredible because we exchanged numerous emails, talk on the phone various times and determined compatibility rapidly.
As a newbie, I wouldn't jump on an overnight so quickly, even if you have the financial means to do it, here is why..
You need to feel compatibility and chemistry with the person.
You need to have a specific plan for the evening (dinner, drinks movie, private time, breakfast etc.)
You need to have realistic expectations of the encounter; if she has requested separate rooms, she may just interact with you for a few hours and then leave in the morning, reason why communication is very important. Remember PSE is not a GFE experience, they are very very different. Be open about your expectations, the worst that can happen is that she cancels but at least both know what you want to get and what she is willing to deliver.
Picking her up from the airport is not uncommon, if I travel to another city, it is normal for the gentleman to come and meet me as a courtesy and as a way to feel at ease. We can talk in the car and get to know each other a bit better. Keep in mind that we are still regular girls, we require sleep, private time etc. (Some girls have dependents so they may need to check with babysitter or significant others regarding their children, pets etc.). Give her time to regain energy and get dolled up for you, brush her teeth, take a shower etc....
Ultimately, read her reviews, she probably has had overnight encounters where a review was written, if you read the details, perhaps you will know exactly what to expect and avoid a big disappointment
I've never done an overnight, but this sounds like too much, to me. "Airport pickup"? That depends on where you are. It can take several hours to pick up someone from some major metro airports (traffic, parking, security, aggravation) and when she isn't even on the originally scheduled flight due to some crazy reason you'll have to reschedule and do it again?? Just tell her to take a cab and you'll reimburse her. (There are the occasional stories of pleasurable rides and detours getting back from the airport to your place, but you'll be DRIVING, not in the back seat of a limo or cab. Angel (Boston) does limo tours of Boston!)
"Her own room" also sounds like a bit much. Why are you flying her in, to be with her or to be NOT with her? Why not just hire a local girl and you can watch the porn star's videos together? There are some reasonable reasons that others have mentioned regarding a separate bed or a separate room but another one might be that she needs two hours of privacy to clean off the makeup at night and two hours of privacy to put it back on in the morning to hide the fact that her videos and photo shoots make her look much better than the real, no-makeup thing is.
This is not experience talking, just my gut.
Good luck and let us know how it goes
The seperate bedroomsounds odd.. BUT.. I have not done an overnight but am considering it with an ATF... I am worried about my snoring and driving her nuts...Imean it's easy tokeepit together fora few hours and to have a great time.. but overnight.. you get no breaks to be yourself (snore, fart, pee) that bothers me..a provider is all about the fantasy... not the reality.
to only do an overnight with a provider you have seen at least once and preferably 2 or 3 times to ensure compatibility. Do you really want to spend all that money and take the chance that you and she are like oil and water?
with anyone you have not already had experience with. There is nothing wrong with picking her up at the airport, I have done that numerous times. I do agree with the others about the separate rooms, that is not something I would do. If I'm paying out big bucks to spend the night with any provider, I expect to spend it in the same bed as her.
Sorry but I know nothing about helpubookher2, but others have said they are a legit agency, as did you.
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I had a buddy years ago... whose wife "fell asleep" during sex. Apparently the guy was able to finish without waking her. She was PISSED! These days one could reasonably be expected to be arrested for Spousal Rape.
I wonder if she is a sound sleeper (after a round of sex) that she's afraid of some sly guy doing things unprotected... without her consent.
I may be wrong. This is an unusual request.
there has to be some sleep. Gals have their own requirements but a gentleman is wise to ask if she has a guide.