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Overnight
Plaidskirt1995 2267 reads
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A guy I've seen three times wants me to do a long overnight with him. (dinner though lunch) What should I expect or insist on? I like him, it sounds fun, but I've never stayed overnight with a guy. He's offered really good $$$.

On the other board you said you are a high school senior. If that is true you should not be staying overnight with anyone, even if you are 18!

Not sure any of your posts are real, or if you are a troll.

However since this is the newbie board and we are supposed to be nice, I will take you seriously for a while. First, please read the Self Help Manual. It is easily found at the top of the page. Second, read this board, back a bunch of pages. There is lots of good information if you truly are a new provider. Third, Learn about screening. That is the most important thing you can do! Learn how to protect yourself from cops and scum clients. Fourth, build yourself a free website to start out.

Now regarding your specific question, we dont know how much is 'really good $$$' but many ladys who do overnights get anywhere form 3000 to 10000. You need to work out how much of that time is public time (dinner, show, breakfast, etc) and how much is private time behind closed doors, and of the private time how much of that is actual sleep time if any. Not every overnight is the same. Is it going to be a 12 hour pornstar fuckfest, or is it going to be dinner, and a show, followed by a few hours of play time, then some sleep, and maybe a middle of the night romp, and back to sleep, then a morning romp followed by breakfast. You need to figure out what he expects for that time, and what you are willing to give.

-- Modified on 3/14/2013 9:17:57 PM

Got that worked out w/a girlfriend...... Thanks for your advice. So,  I could say that we need to sleep 6 (7? 8?) hours.  I know he wants to play in the morning. He's giving me 2500.

Posted By: Plaidskirt1995
A guy I've seen three times wants me to do a long overnight with him. (dinner though lunch) What should I expect or insist on? I like him, it sounds fun, but I've never stayed overnight with a guy. He's offered really good $$$.

He furnishes Meals, snacks, beverages.  You should ok the plans, in case you have strong preferances or allergies.  
Partake of alcohol lightly & he must do the same.  All beverages should be opened in front of you & not leave your sight.  No different than a bar...  but you wouldn't know that!  
An agreement on total sleep hours.  Expect it to be interrupted but an agreement going in is a help.  
If perchance one of you has a sleep problem (like snoring), it should be OK to finish the night in another bed...  & rejoin in the morning.  It might be prudent to ask, especially if he's older.

You might want some personal time...  a few minutes to an hour...  to wash up (alone), use the toilet, call/text your BFF to check in for safety   He should be ok with this, but worthy of a mention in advance.

+++ that you've seen him before & he seems ok.  This is the biggest thing because you will be asleep next to him & THAT requires a lot of trust.  At east it should.    

You should bring condoms & anything else you need (lube).  

Have fun!

If you are only 18, and in high school, there shouldn't be any alcohol.

If something went wrong (for example stopped by the cops for a traffic infraction or anything like that and there was some contact with LE that would normally be no big deal), if you've been drinking and can tell it, and your under age, he's probably going to catch a charge for procuring alcohol for a minor, and then if they find out what's really going on, they will throw the proverbial book at him for EVERYTHING they can think of.

Good luck and have fun!!

I stand corrected & a very good point indeed.  Mid-post I forgot she was 18.  An alcohol infraction would complicate everything.  So watch your Sprite!   The point I was trying to make is that Providers need to keep their wits about them so they can make good decisions.
Yes, it sure would be a beach to beat the provider hobbiest rap & get hung for alcohol to a minor.  
HV  

Posted By: JB1982
If you are only 18, and in high school, there shouldn't be any alcohol.

If something went wrong (for example stopped by the cops for a traffic infraction or anything like that and there was some contact with LE that would normally be no big deal), if you've been drinking and can tell it, and your under age, he's probably going to catch a charge for procuring alcohol for a minor, and then if they find out what's really going on, they will throw the proverbial book at him for EVERYTHING they can think of.

Good luck and have fun!!

I mean if she is ready to break the law here, why not break them all, right? I highly doubt anyone from freaking BP is gong to pay a girl with NO PHOTOS and NO REVIEWS, for a damn overnight. She is going to get ripped off big time, but I digress. Did she screen him? Does she know what screening is? Please help her.

-- Modified on 3/15/2013 10:28:15 PM

Hey Plaidskirt, I'm in the Richmond area and looking for a new provider (my fav has moved out of the area).  Message me if you are interested in getting together!

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