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To each his/her own. One may see beyond the physical and go read how her: attitude, demeanor & service...that  may just blow any other Model type, who is just "there" & robot like, out the window..okay..well not completely, but you get my drift?..

I really do think that both sides should do their part in learning a few little intimate details of the other person. I see it as another way to connect & help them relaxed a bit..knowing as a Lady I took the time to learn what he likes, dislikes, clothing preferences.
Then there are those who just need a need meet & that's it. Nothing out of the way but a quick meeting for the lunch hour and back to work,..but with a bounce in his step.
Okay, so with my thoughts on the reviews & how they are important when choosing someone to spend time with I find helpful and very much needed for me.

stanvangun2990 reads

of chicks that are NOT good looking..(and I am being kind)..and wonder WTF!?!?!


Come on man...beauty in the eye of the beholder??! wow...ok..sure.



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hiddenhills1018 reads

There's an old saying, I'd rather see a 7/9
than a 9/7. Maybe she was a Plan B, if you know what I mean.

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MFugly1365 reads

You will learn to keep a favorites list if you become TER VIP !  On my favorites list, about 20% are the ugliest fattest providers on TER. Reading reviews of these pigs can be much more entertaining & humorous than any other reading or  comedic media programming.

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Bostonguy571542 reads

But what does this have to do with the newbie board?

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DC.2703 reads

is hot and what it ugly??  Maybe, but to be honest, I really don't give a flying fuck at a rolling doughnut what YOU consider good looking or not.  Neither does anyone else.

To keep this a more Newbie thread than not, you should do your searching on the reviews by the description fields rather than the number scores.  If you put in the body type, hair color, age, bust size, and whatever other field that floats your boat, you will weed out most of what you don't want to see.

Grow up a little.

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stanvangun925 reads

What does it serve to say 'grow up a little'?  I think you adding that at the end of your response makes me think you need to.

Come on man..I speak for most men...fat and ugly? Is fat and ugly...ok?

And I think people DO care. That's why they read these boards.

As to why it's a newbie question....I'm still trying decipher the lingo, get a feel for the reviews,ratings etc. So when I see reviewers give fuglies 7's and 8's for appearance....and the same kind of ratings for good looking women...it takes me back 5 steps in my understanding of how those numbers are given. Just wondering if anyone else shares this frustration.

But go ahead....make it a personal attack on the message poster ..ie. me. Feel better?

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DC.1382 reads

I've already said that I don't think you are the Newbie you claim to be.  Your posts, whether you are a Newbie or not, seem to be designed to have a slap, dig, or a button pushing slant to them (including this one).  This isn't the board for that.  Go to the General Discussion Board or your regional boards for that kind of shit and have at it.

Do I feel better?  No. Actually I'm a little pissed at myself for even giving you this much time and effort.  

Take this as a warning or otherwise FWIW.  Stop fucking with the Newbies.

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stanvangun1888 reads

you should have posted my response to you.....it would have been more fair...and explained why I posted. You have no idea what other 'newbies' want to read..and I bet alot feel the same way about posts and ratings and all of it. It is confusing and inconsistent and people just want as much information as possible....good and bad...so they can make their own choices. If you want these forums to be nothing but sugar-coated love fests...you do a disservice to everyone.

but...you have control...so you set the agenda. the man!

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little phil1259 reads

There is no unapproved post on this topic.  Anything written by stan has been posted.  If the reference is to a private message, TER forbids posting them publicly.

Additionally, it's interesting to me that a newbie that claims to not pay for VIP could use the mail system, which is a VIP feature.  I'm beginning to wonder as well how new you are stan.

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stanvangun1157 reads

It was a regular posted (attempted) message. Not a PM at all.

No need for everyone to get their undies in a bundle. man. Go back and look at my original post...and what some of the responses are. how this gets twisted into some conspiracy theory is rich! I am amused by it heartily!!

The level of enthusiasm and passion shown on these boards is entertaining alone!!

thanks!!

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little phil1420 reads

In the last 7 days, you have one unapproved message on the Las Vegas board, and one on the In Search Of board.  Do you really want to have this discussion with someone that can see your posting history?

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DC.951 reads

From reading your post, that's the post to which you refer.  

A little lesson on the threads for you and the real newbies.  They are staggered in response to specific posts.  You posted, I replied, you then replied with your "DC" post (which started a new track on the thread), to which I replied and so forth and so on.

When you read my reply to yours, you obviously didn't see your initial reply post up there.  It's been up there all along (or my post to which you replied wouldn't have been - see how it works?)

You've now engaged in a little argument that has been a direct result of a mistake you made.  Yet, instead of actually reading Little Phil's post and following up on it by clicking on your "view my posts" feature, you continue the argument.

As I said before, Grow up a little.

But thank you for allowing me to use you as an example to teach newbies. LOL

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Bostonguy571060 reads

Newbies can read anywhere they like on TER. This board is intended to deal, in a non inflammatory way, with issues that relate to customers and providers who are new to the hobbie and/or the site.

Sugar coated love fest? Hardly, but this particular board serves a purpose.  The stuff you are posting simply belongs on the GB board.

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SinsOfTheFlesh1089 reads

"Come on man..I speak for most men...fat and ugly? Is fat and ugly...ok?"

You speak for most men? Really? So who the hell is writing all of those reviews? The Tooth Fairy? Santa Clause? Little Red Riding Hood?

And oh wait a second, I forgot, you are the cheap one who won't pay for VIP. Gee, here's a brain flash. If you REALLY want to know why men are writing reviews for "fat and ugly" women, maybe you need to part with twenty whole dollars and actually READ some of the reviews.

But lets be clear here. *I* am fat, *YOU* are the ugly one here. Which is of course why the answer to the question of how many times someone has paid money to fuck YOU in your lifetime is zero. And I suspect, also answers the question of why you are paying for it. This isn't a hobby for you. Its your only option with an attitude like that.

You are hereby declared no longer a newbie. The word "newbie" implies teachable. You are not. Now slither over to the General Board. You will fit right in.

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czcodger1308 reads

What is beautiful and what is not varies person to person. I don't go for high cheek boned, nordic blonde types, most men will kill to bed one. Am I strange? No, I have a preference that even I can't explain.

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jimmybuff561036 reads

DC has it exactly right. Do your research by the phsical descriptions first. Cross referenced by their performance score. If you do a little work, you should find plenty of providers to your liking.

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stanvangun1388 reads

Kinda my point, in a roundabout way. I punch in 8 to 10 for appearance, expecting my version of what that means to be representative of what most men's version is...only to find out there's an awful (no pun intended) lot of dudes who think fuglies are 8's.

So clearly my standards are too high (which is why I am not getting any pussy for free, right SOTF ;) )
ORRRRR....there's a plenty of dudes on this site who wouldn't know a dog if it bit 'em. "Hell, they'll fuck ME, they must be pert-ie".

( man this is fun!)

DC...do you despise me yet?

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DC.777 reads

bush league compared to some of the people I deal with on these boards.

Besides, as I've always told anyone who will listen - it's just an internet discussion board.  I don't take any of this shit personally or seriously.

LOL  :-D

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GaGambler3413 reads

Hey there Mr "super duper REALLY nice Mod" Were you talking about me again??? lmao

I think our new poster needs a few thousand more posts under his belt before he can reach "despised" status. rofl

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stanvangun2129 reads

awesome answer man! I think you are alright! not that you give a shit! lol!!

bush league! hmmm....well..I don't think I will try to advance to the big leagues. I'm happy down here!!

peace

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Jeff0231450 reads

This may sound novel, but I read the reviews first to see if I'll like being with a provider, then to see if I can find some little thing that she'll like to do.  I know, I'm paying HER to please ME.  But giving her a bit of the right kind of attention goes a long way to getting what I want.

I've had one provider (my favorite so far) say she read my reviews of other ladies (there are only a couple so it wasn't much work for her) to see what I like.  Strikes me as good business sense on her part.  Left her a tip, too :).

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PureNDN1695 reads

To each his/her own. One may see beyond the physical and go read how her: attitude, demeanor & service...that  may just blow any other Model type, who is just "there" & robot like, out the window..okay..well not completely, but you get my drift?..

I really do think that both sides should do their part in learning a few little intimate details of the other person. I see it as another way to connect & help them relaxed a bit..knowing as a Lady I took the time to learn what he likes, dislikes, clothing preferences.
Then there are those who just need a need meet & that's it. Nothing out of the way but a quick meeting for the lunch hour and back to work,..but with a bounce in his step.
Okay, so with my thoughts on the reviews & how they are important when choosing someone to spend time with I find helpful and very much needed for me.

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shudaknownbetter1578 reads

Part of the selection process is to check their stats, look ad their ads, yes, read their reviews & decide.  If you choose to NOT avail yourself of the available information...  it is yor own fault if you do not get what you want in appearance OR performance.

Yes, I do use the TER Favorites feature available to VIPs.  There's even a space to save notes on each, which I do after reviewing the available info.  The ladies I am interested in seeing, make it to my To Do list...
skb

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keystonekid1442 reads

Only if I'm interested in seeing them.  Doesn't matter if it is for plan A or B.

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stanvangun1210 reads

cuz you make me laugh!!

signed,

non-newbie, as dubbed by SOTF.

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thebellasecret1574 reads

I just searched your name. Seems like the only thing you are really looking for is attention.

All your post is putting others down or asking obvious questions.

You may want to figure out your real reason for being here, and seek help.

Bella

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stanvangun1486 reads

Super advice bella! Thanks!!

Ps.

'they' say that there's nothing called a 'stupid' (i.e. obvious) question. Clearly that adage doesn't apply to this part of the world. My bad. Just gathering info and throwing in my two cents..just like everyone else. welcome to america! ain't she great!!!

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czcodger851 reads

Gathering information is one thing, being a bore is another. Your post is offensive and better not done.

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