I felt that if I posted this in the general discussion board that I might end up getting put here anyways, but my questions more or less pertain to how to handle a bait and switch situation during an outcall.  Obviously, during an incall if you suspect she is not the girl in the pics or not satisfied you can simply walk away once the door is opened, but is it the same for an outcall? Should you not answer the door if she's not what you expected? Or is it better to at least open the door and compensate her something for time and gas to come to you? Do you run the risk of violence or retaliation since she knows where you live? Or should you just chalk it up as a loss and TOFTT, cross her off your list, and write a review on TER telling other hobbyists to stay away? LOL. Just curious because I have yet to do an outcall but some ladies on my "to do" list offer outcalls only.

Incall or Outcall makes no difference in my opinion.If the lady is coming to you and you see she is not what you expected don't open the door.Or let her know she is not the lady you expected in the pictures.Why would you reward bad business by giving compensation for gas or anything else?She misrepresented herself using fake pics so why condone this?As long as gentleman compensate for this bad behavior there will continually be ladies that will B&S because they know they can.
From what others mostly said(not all)that when an appointment starts out as a B&S and they continue on with it majority of the time the appointment ends up down hill with the gentleman complaining later.So,if you have nothing better to do and do not mind losing money than go ahead with the B&S TOFTT.Thinking with the little head in this situation will leave you disappointed .But,if you want to have a wonderful time check out ladies that are well-reviewed and you know what you are going to get certainly not a B&S.

I've done quite a few outcalls and so far haven't run into that problem.  However, with most of these outcalls the ladies had been TER reviewed and I had a pretty good idea of who would be on the other side of the door.  Also, the B&S as you might be describing would, by my definition, is she is nothing like her pics.  I suspect had that happened to me, I would have sent her on her way empty handed and taken my chances from there.  I don't believe in rewarding bad behaviour.  But as you point out, if there is an agenda that she has a "friend" along to make sure that payments are satisfactory, then problems could occur, but I would take my chances on that.  

But again, stay with those that are reviewed and the likelihood of a serious B&S is minimized significantly.  Most of the gals that post pics have blurred faces...hence a B&S is quite possible in that regard.  As I decide on a lady I can only go by the body pics and reviews.  Thus far I have been fortunate, but I do a considerable amount of homework to ensure that.

Meaning, don't do outcalls to your personal residence unless you know her REALLY, and I mean REALLY, well.

can post a thread on your regional board about a  B & S.

I never get an outcall unless its a girl I already know well, or a service that has always been good to me.
As a rule I have never found a bait-n-switch to work out well. Its always a precursor to bigger problems like cash-n-dash or just plain old rotten service. Anybody who lies in a business agreement (which is basically what escorting is) cannot be trusted and theres not much point in continuing.

On the other hand, I dont wanna be rude to the girl who did show up. Chances are it was not her decision. The agency just calls up and says "go to this house". When she arrives she is usually very surprised that I didnt ask specifically for her. Most are so desperate for money they ask if I would be willing to see them anyway. After all my bad experiences I have gotten into the habit of declining but paying for their gasoline. They usually leave without a fuss if I do that much.
It also sends a strong message to the service that I dont like being jerked around and they need to either clean up their act, or forget about getting my money entirely.

Think very carefully about what you wrote. You have the answer. Are you going to give your address to a potential ROB or pimped addict?

If you do, you suffer the consequences.

Personally, even with providers I trust, I wouldn't play at my own home. Not when for $60 on Priceline I can have a resort room for the night.

And they wash the sheets.


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