For outcalls, do I get the hotel and wait in the room for the SP?

Or, as I read somewhere, should I tell her to get a room somewhere and then meet her there?

Which way is safer in your opinion?

Any help greatly appreciated!

If she ads outcall only, you may have to provide room if you don't want her coming to your house, which, by the way, is not a good idea for first visit.

If she gets the room, which is better for no paper trail for you, you should offer to pay for it.

Why not just do incall?  It's a lot less hassle for you unless you are on the road travelling and already have a room.

Swim

My personal opinion is outcalls are safer than incalls. I always get the hotel and meet the woman in the lobby. Don't let her know your room number until they are there and you know for sure they are alone.

Incalls can be dangerous for a variety of reasons. Outcalls, you basically control the arrangement. You never know who could be lurking in the room with an incall.

Thanks for the advices. I wanna do outcall bc I feel incall is too dangerous, you will never know what is behind the door. Outcall to a hotel seem to be too much money. But what if LE come to meet me does that happen??

If you are seeing someone well reviewed, the risk of anything nefarious waiting for you in her room is remote.

If you are seeing someone unreviewed, then caveat emptor.

Are her outcall dangers as well. Lukers are everywhere.

Myself, I prefer outcall when on the road. What I don't completely understand is the difference in incall/outcall rates, for most ladies.

I can understand the travel cost to an outcall location......But the room is paid for and travel cost still imply to the ladies incall locale. My guess is that it's a safety thing. No objections here.

I think the different rates mean she is willing to do both but prefers one over the other and is trying to get you to go with her favored option. While occasionally there is added expenses involved.

I think when you see a difference between the in call rate and the out call rate, with the out call rate being the higher of the two, even though she isnt out the cost of the room, she isnt at her own place and cant therefore, be immediately available for another appointment after your appointment ends.

I'm theorizing, and that's a total guess on my behalf.

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The difference is that you also pay for her travel, as well as her time during travel, above the normal rate.