Luck favors the prepared.

You have much to learn

All providers approach screening differently.  A reference is nice, but a reference a provider can't verify isn't gonna be of much help.

Tell her your situation, and see what she says.

Or join P411.

www.preferred411.com

Then look for a "newbie friendly" provider. She may ask more information from you, but you should do fine.

Not sure if this will work by Monday, but you can certainly try! Many ladies have "available now" on their profiles.

you are probably not going to connect with anyone on such short notice.  By your situation, I mean not having any references.  Screening properly takes some time.  The self-employment thing is also a bit of a barrier.  You are most likely going to have to give up some personal information in order to pass someone's screening.  I would recommend that you join Preferred411 for a couple of reasons.  Gina, the owner, will work with you on getting you verified.  You can call the site's toll-free number to contact her.  It is less risky giving your personal info to one or two verification sites than it is giving it to a number of providers for screening.  

Also, P411 allows providers to indicate if they are newbie friendly.  This means they will see you with somewhat lighter screening than other providers.  You should look for ladies that have that on their profiles.

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