New to the site and the hobby. Looking at possible providers here and on CL and have seen several on CL that seem very tempting but they aren't reviewed here. Any suggestions on how to screen these providers to verify they aren't LE? Any red flags I should be looking for on the CL posting? Does having their own website make them any more credible? Thanks in advance.
CL is simply an ad site, but if you are new to the hobby you probably would be better off looking at other ad sites. Whatever ad site you choose, I would not advise taking a chance on any ladies that have no reviews, that is a red flag in itself. Maybe try a VIP here and learn to use the search functions, that should produce lots of ladies of interest to you.
set up busts of clients, and also to bust providers.
Unless the person is well reviewed on here or similar site, stay away.
Why not just use TER as a way to find good escorts in your area?
That's what I do and I'm always impressed with the results.
Get VIP status for best results.
Open2, be really careful walking the CL tightrope. If the lady has no reviews then it's a 80/20 chance you will not be pleased and that's if it's not a sting from LE.
If she has a website and still no reviews then it still could be a sting from LE.
When I first started I tried a few ladies from CL but emailed them and they had reviews but under different name on TER. I was able to confirm both and had a pretty good experience. However I did try one and it was a very bad experience and that is why now it is TER reviewed or no nookie for me!!!
If you get VIP here it is the best money you will spend unless of coarse it is money spent on a provider...lol
In my area, CL is swarming with girls... who think it's easy money. But few are
"professional". Few web sites, just a huge come on... I had my share of disappointments before I found TER.
Now that I have more experience, I might take a chance on a CL girl but I know that I'm TOFTT.
It IS really easy money... and the scams to part us from it are numerous.
TER has ladies who are professional. It's not a bad thing! We know will give the services they contract for, not flake out on you.
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It's plain and simple, like previous posts have mentioned. As a newbie, CL is very difficult to navigate successfully. Stick with well reviewed TER ladies and you should be fine. BTW the acronym TOFTT means "take one for the team", which translates to seeing a lady with no reviews. This should be left to the experienced hobbyists.
My question is I am emailing and trying to set up with a provider who has a website which is quite extensive, but has no reviews and request that none be given. Is this a red flag to consider?
Some providers simply prefer not to have reviews. they prefer private time to remain private and not be on the Internet for all to see. however, I also understand the gentleman's point of view - that he wants an idea of what he is getting for his donation and that she is a legitimate provider. Other reasons a lady may not have reviews is that she is new, or in the case of myself, has reviews but not on TER yet.
Certain providers do want to remain private. My ATF pulled all TER reviews, the LE activity where we live is very activity and she's gone somewhat utr. You can post a 411 on your local board concerning the provider, however, since you have not written any reviews, you may not get a response to your inquiry That's just the way it is, don't take it personally.
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most of her clients may not write reviews. Many gentlemen look for reviews, but don't write them. The majority of my clients prefer not to write them, which I respect and prefer.
many CL girls are getting TER reviews, or at least have been in the last couple of months. But, bottom line should be, no review here or somewhere else that you can verify, no visit.
Like other guys said, CL is a haven for uncle LEO and his nephews to set stuff up to nail providers and hobbyists.
Like you, I have seen numerous CL girls that look very appealing, BUT......
Good luck,
Swim
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no TER reviews proceed with extreme caution. Ladies without reviews are not recommended for newbies; way to easy to get into a B & S or C & D.