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I'm a member of P411 and I recently has a session with a well reviewed lady who has an account on there.  The session went well and we got a long and after it was over she said that she would   give me an okay on P411.  I sent the okay request that night and e-mailed her to thank her again.  It has been a couple of days and I have not received it.  My question is how long does it usually take for an indy to give an okay?

robinnwin791732 reads

I'm not really into writing reviews. I like to keep the details of my dates private. How do I get white listed?

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bluepillman545 reads

Many providers will send you a thank you email following your session. That would be the appropriate time to tell her how much fun you had and to ask if she wouldn't mind whitelisting you. If you dont hear from her within say 48-72 hours, hit her up.  

Not all ladies whitelist the same way. Some look it as merely as a way to say you're "ok" to another lady who may look at your whitelist referrals. Other ladies only whitelist if they have seen you on numerous ocassions and feel they have gotten to know you on a deeper level before they give you their "stamp of approval" so to speak.  

Not writing reviews however, will most likely hamper you in aquiring whitelist referrals as many ladies look at it as a "quid pro quo" where you take care of them with a good review, they take care of you with a whitelist. But other ladies will indeed whitelist without the need for a review, so you can see there is no set rhyme or reason as it varies greatly from lady to lady. And it also needs to be said some ladies dont whitelist at all, no matter how nice they think you are.

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Sphinxnc376 reads

WHITELISTING:

Once registered as a provider, you should be able to whitelist just about ANY hobbyist member of TER. It doesn't matter if he has submitted a review of you or not. The only TER members that cannot be whitelisted are those that have whitelisting disabled in their account.

 
To whitelist a user, click on the "Reviews" link near the top of the screen, and then click "Search White List" on the left side of the screen. Type in the hobbyists TER username (or his email address if you don't know his username, which may or may not match up depending on what email he uses on his profile). Once you find the hobbyist you are looking for, click on the "Submit Referral" button. Only provider accounts can see this button

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ohs4u361 reads

She is Absolutely Correct, the Rules state that no review is required and one Provider  
whitelisted me b-4 I even saw her when I sent her instructions. So of course being a gentleman  
I saw her and then provided a rather positive review.  
    The biggest problem that I encounter is that there are several providers who have not claimed  
nor know how to claim their profiles and it seems that these are generally the Girls that have been on TER for and have 5 Character TER IDs.
     Ohs

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perfectstorm393 reads

of the whitelist system!

And people wonder why many ladies wont take whitelists for screening. :(

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bluepillman332 reads

But something tells me you'll survive it! lol. No, but in all seriousness, while I do agree she should have never have whitelisted the guy in question before meeting with him, no one person can ruin "the whole credibility of the whitelist system" or any other verification system for that matter. There are flaws and gaps in all of them.  

And many ladies will take whitelists for screening, provided you can show control of your profile by sending a pm, possibly having numerous whitelist referrals, having them from well known, well respected providers, etc.  

No system is perfect. This could have just as easily have happened on DC or P411, if a provider and hobbyist work together, so this is not an indictment specifically of the TER whitelist system. Just my 2 cents.

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London Rayne343 reads

True, it won't ruin it for everyone and anyone just taking a white list as golden, is a moron anyway. You still need to CALL OR EMAIL those providers, and ask further questions. Even with an "OK" many ladies still contact the provider, to make sure. No public reference system is responsible for your own safety, and Gina is very candid about saying this. She and others provide a "tool" for screening, but they do NOT suggest it be your only tool.

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EasyTimes321 reads

Especially when it is "announced" on the board!  What's next... I have a date on Wednesday, and I know I'm gonna love her, so I'll just go ahead and write the review today while I have some time?  All in the same vein as broadcasting in the review that you stayed 2 hrs over your time and the lady never even looked at the clock.  Doesn't really do anyone any good, and sets unrealistic expectations.  Just blows up one's ego!

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1192967323 reads

...this is one of those things were it's not so bad because everyone should use more than one tool to screen. But it's messed up if You are the one that doesn't get an appointment because a provider decides the whitelist is suspect. So it's all good until it's you that's affected by it.  

Yes, I know there are plenty of other ladies to see so just move after all you can't always get what you want.

BTW: This has not happened to me I'm simply giving a different point of view.

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London Rayne288 reads

Agreed. You can't provide a reference to someone you've never met...end of story. What if he goes out and kills someone after your WL? You simply do not know a person until you are behind closed doors, and even then...who is to say he won't be a d*ck to the next girl?

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1192967279 reads

...I don't have a problem with a provider whitelisting a client even though he hasn't reviewed her but when he hasn't even see her?! That's just not right. The whitelist is a referral for clients she has actually seen. How could she know if he's a good client (legit and doesn't cause problems, etc.) or not if she hasn't seen him. No credibility if that's the case. What a mess!

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MAK-90340 reads

I'm a member of P411 and I recently has a session with a well reviewed lady who has an account on there.  The session went well and we got a long and after it was over she said that she would   give me an okay on P411.  I sent the okay request that night and e-mailed her to thank her again.  It has been a couple of days and I have not received it.  My question is how long does it usually take for an indy to give an okay?

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