At 5-10 and 195, you are not terribly overweight. Realize that there are 300 and 400 pound hobbyists.

While there are always exceptions, and every lady can decide who she wants to see (for example , some won't see certain age groups, and some won't see certain races, so there are probably some who won't see overweight guys), in GENERAL, if you are a gentleman, you have good hygiene, and you have the proper donation, most ladies will have no problem at all seeing you.

Oh, and I know you asked for ladies to answer and I am not a lady. However, I am an overweight client who has never had an issue getting a date with a lady I wanted to see, or getting repeat dates or references from the ones I have seen, so I speak with some authority and experience on the subject.

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weight??

if you are paying the freight..you should never be intimidated by anyone..

Posted By: CincinnatiGuy

I'm not a small guy.  5'10" and (right now) about 195-200 pounds.  I'm watching what I eat and it's paying off, but I'm still in the pudgy category.

I've got my eye on a few ladies in the Cincinnati/Dayton area (Nina, Indulgance, Erika, Callie) who are listed as slim or athletic.  They're all beautiful, but frankly, they're a bit intimidating because of my physique.

I just wanted to know if they had an issue meeting with a guy with weight issues.

Thanks.

I've got you beat in weight.  Not by a lot but enough.  Hasn't been an issue at all for me.

I don't have issues meeting with men of any weight, BUT yes if you are that much bigger to a petite person it does present a challenge for several positions. I don't want a lot of weight pressed down against me during mish, so all I do is suggest other positions if he can't hold himself up. You don't sound overweight to me though...is that not about average for guys who are that height? My ex was 6 ft. 5 and weighed 185, but he had chicken legs and no ass lol. I can't imagine you being all that big.

Having said that, if you are clean and respectful and a nice guy, well then you should be treated with the same amount of respect and feel absolutely adored by the lady of your choice for the time you are with her.

So even if a provider tells you she doesn't have an issue with physique or weight or whatever, that doesn't mean the ones on your list WON'T have an issue.

But when I screen I do ask age ht and wt.
I want to know your size, so there are no surprises.
So I know how to handle you!!

5'10" & 200lbs is quite normal, especially if you have muscles

One of my favorite clients is about an inch shorter than you (5'9) and weighs 300+ but boy do I love when he's on top of me hehe all that weight gets him deep

So I'd say not to worry, they'll be plenty of ladies who will enjoy you, even if you think you're a bit husky

xxx
Jinni

It's nice to know that guys have the same concerns as females on this.  I think the fact that you are conscientious about your health is by far more important.  There is an interesting double standard that isn't likely to change soon....females are expected to be more weight proportioned than males.  In fact I think a lot of guys prefer to have more weight to appear bigger.  Maybe  I am off base.  Curious to know what the guys think.