Why is that?

Because you posted the same thing on the Ohio board.
When you post the same thing on multiple boards, TER considers it spam, and they don't allow it. They probably felt the Ohio post was more appropriate, and deleted the one on the newbie board.

You can go to "My TER" at the top of the page and then go to "my message boards." It should tell you the reason the post was pulled, but sometimes their reasons don't make sense.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/account_manager/myPosts.asp

They will also send you an email eventually

Click on "more" and then 'my board posts'.  You will see there why it was deleted.

Swim

One less click with my method

Always seems like TER has two or three ways to do everything!  

I get emails when they turn down putting up posts not when they taken them down