You might have to give out some personal information, but that's the breaks.

...to see the ladies you say you want to see you will need to give them personal info instead of references since you don't have any OR you can do as is most often suggested...get membership on P411 or DateCheck and be verified by them. Then see ladies that accept P411 and/or DateCheck screening in place of their own (Some will still want some personal info). You are correct many providers won't accept BP providers as references but that's not to say all of them won't.

Read back on this board. You will see all kinds of advice for your situation.

13 reviews and no references?? But then I looked at your reviews. You have done a lot of TOFTT!

Couple things you can do now: Look for providers that screen in other ways than using references, and be willing to give up some personal info to them (real name, place of employment) and/or join one ir more of the screening services (p411, date-check, rs2k) and look for newbie friendly providers.

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I too, only accept refs from highly reviewed providers with a personal website. It shows they are not just going to disappear after they have me set up to get busted. Many providers are the same way.

I did notice that your appearance ratings were not real high.  That suggests to me that your research is not real thorough and you are are going based on pics on ads, and not looking into them very much.  Think you should look for more established providers who can give you credible references.

Swm

i D START A NEW ALIAS WITH NICER REVIEWS.

i know this is gonna sound shallow. bah bah bah, buuut, i imagine 90 percent the ladies are doing this to make money, and would rather meet with less clients per week whom pay more. as opposed to havn to do more dates because your meetin with all dates whom are broke, .
          to be honest most ladies with good reviews may look at your history and say hmm, ok the guy is def broke. maybe i will seek a better or more well of new client, I know if a guy contacts me who sees all adies that charge 750 an hour, i am wicked impressed know they are gonna be good to me, and know they have been taight some form etiqueete already, you know wash the balls with a facecloth n soap before u come the appt, floss. brush teeth, wipe ass, clean ass with face cloth n soap, i have seen guys actually smell. i ask them to shower, and they come back from shower and STILL stink, cuz they didnt use a dam face cloth, you cant wash funk off with just shwer gel guys, haha! but i d start a new alias and instead of seein 15 appts that suck n gradin them shitty, save n go see one high end lady n start a new alias, the ladies will be impressed and think your a high roller pimp ganster n wanna do you, i dont think the mIN OBJECTIVE IS TO MEET TRUCK LOADS OF OF OLDER MEN THAT ARE LOOKING FOR DISCOUNTS, THATS FOR ME ANY WAYS NOT THE GOAL, I AM DOIN THIS AS WAY TO FUND PAYIN OFF STUDENT LOAN LIKE MOST GIRLS N I D RATHER NOT HAVE TO WORK 3 TIMES AS HARD EVERY MONTH TOET FROM POINT A TO B,
I KNOW THIS SOUNDS MEAN, BUT, I D SAYSTART A NEW ALIAS, CUZ THOSE REVIEWS TO ME, I D DELETE THE INQUIRY, AFTER SEEIN THOSE MEAN REVIEWS, ITS LIKE U DPNT WANNA SPEND ALOT, BUTTHEN YOUR GONNA GIVE THOSE LADIES CRAPPY REVIEWS N BE MEAN? WHEN IN REALITY IF THEY ARENT MAKN ALOT, THEY CANT GET AHEAD N AFFORD WEB SITE OR FANCY NAILS HAIR CLOTHES, N THEY R STUCK IN THAT SPOT TIL THEY FIGHT THERE WAY OUT BY DOIUN TONS CHEAP APPTS N PUTTIN UP WITH TINS BS. N GUYS COME ALONG WITH THIER CHUMO CHANGE N THEN WANNA COMPLAIN THE LADY ISNT A TEN, HOW CAN THEY GET BE TENS WHEN EVERY ONES SHITIN ON THEM N GIVIN THEM PEANUTS,
HALF THE LADIES THAT GET THE HIGHER SCORES ALSO R GETTIN PAID, HAVE MONEY FOR BEST BREAST JOBS CLOTHES N MAKE UP, WHEN THE GUY SEES A CHEAP ESCPORT N THEN WANTS TO GO COMPKAIN SHE ISNT A TEN, IT JUST ANNOYS ME, ITS MEAN, .