I'm a little confused by your post. A provider advised you not to cum too fast so you forgot to cum at all?  Her "regulars get multiples" and you are one and done?

Find another provider...

Rather than just complain, you see your experiences as a way to learn.

Yes, it does take a while to learn about how your body reacts and find your path.

My best to you.

A bit disappointed as an hour is simply not enough if you still have multiple shots in you.  You literally have to be selfish, cut to the chase and only take care of your needs.  Although Daty is great for the provider and really erotic for the hobbyist, it does take away time for multiple shots.  Today was just my second experience with a provider.  I purposely tried to hold out last as long as possible as she advised on the first visit, it was one and done.  The regulars are offered multiples.  Worst thing was I ran out of time and didn't realize it and didn't cum. Spent a good 10+ minutes on daty another 10+ minutes on chit chat because I was a nervous pussy,  being it was my only second time. However, the experience was still truly amazing.  I guess you live and learn in the crazy hobbying world!

But seriously, mandatory one and done on a first appointment? A COVERED hand job?  You can do better than this woman....

This is one girl you need to avoid.

She took advantage of you and you should move on. Search the TER reviews, you should be able to find a gal you'll enjoy.

Sorry for the confusion... This was my first visit with the provider.  Her rules were one and done on the first visit.  With that in mind I didn't want to blow it too fast and enjoy every possible minute.  My time ran over as she had another scheduled appointment.  She tried to finish me off with a HJ but the cover slipped off and there was no time to start over.  I will become a regular and will make up for this "blown" opportunity on my next visit.   This was just a "dumb ass" rookie mistake on my part.  Just needed to vent a little...  Tks Bos-man.

Thank you, Mr. Fisher.

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I have experienced the one hour sessions, and found out rather quickly that did not work for me, and for similar reasons you have suggested.  Consider expanding your initial sessions to two hours and I would think that your experiences will be enhanced.  I typically only shoot once in a session (regardless of the length in most cases), but that allows me to explore (and be explored) the lady in ways that only more time allows.  I also like to converse rather extensively as I look for commonality with a lady which is very important to me if I plan on seeing her again.  As I am finding out, a lot of this is trial and error (but staying with well reviewed providers enhances your chances of a terrific session).  Good luck to you!

If things go well and I want to see the lady again, then I will schedule a longer date. And as far as the lady saying multiple pops are for regulars, I find that to be total BS. You paid her for her time, I would never schedule a second date with a lady who said that to me. This lady needs to take a course in business development.

It might not be enough FOR YOU...I've had pretty nice hh and hr gfe sessions so.....yeah.

Every hobbyist needs to discover what works best for them.  If second or third cups during a session is important to you, by all means, book a longer engagement if needed.  Some of your comments and perceptions are incorrect, however, at least IMO.  These are:

1) Equating multiple pops with GFE.  While the option for as many as you can muster should be present, having a multiple pop experience is not necessary for it to be GFE.  Many hobbyists are happy with just one pop, and would consider the experience as being GFE if the lady acted as though you were her boyfriend during your time together.  Even if it's only an hour, and only one shot on goal is all you get muster.  Just make sure to make that one shot count...

2) Ladies that are once and done, not GFE under any circumstances.  You are paying for her time...if you can muster a second pop or more, she should be accommodating.  Don't see her again.

3) Don't break the experience in portions time-wise.  Just go with the flow...you'll enjoy it more!  

Good luck, dude.  You have no idea how great the hobby can be, once learn how to play.  Always treat these ladies with respect...they are are taking their clothes off, and are willing to have sex with with you.  How great is that?  Yes, you have to pay, but nothing worth having in this life is free.

Find another provider with fewer stupid rules!

She's the pro...  while ladies should not be obivious "clock watchers", they MUST be skilled time managers.  One Fav of mine has a not obivious clock.  Others use music tracks or other cues.  

Good providers do not book clients "back to back".  They should have a break in between to shower, freshen up, recover.  I think you can do better.  

I quickly learned to request a 1.5 hour appointment though now I can be happy with an hour appointment if that is to her liking.  
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her bottom line.

It doesn't matter (except in your mind) if it's back-to-back. If she has enough time to freshen, and the stamina to see guys one right after the other, then that's what she'll do. That's good business sense as far as I'm concerned.

I figure that you fellows (you being the collective, not just you personally shudaknownbetter) have a problem with back-to-back because:

a) you don't want to be reminded that you're not her only client of the day and

b) you don't necessarily want to stay in the time and her having an appointment immediately after means you have to stick to the time you paid for.

As for clock-watching, every lawyer and plumber and any other service provider watches the clock and bills you for every minute you spend with them. We're service providers too, and as such, we watch the clock too. The two differences there are:

1) it's a more INTIMATE business than say, a lawyer or plumber or such and

2) we cannot bill you for the extra time you take.

Even if we mention before you go that you stayed over and that you need to pay xx, you don't usually pay for it because you figure we "let" you stay over.  That's damning us as "clock-watchers" if we keep you to the time you pay for and damning us in OUR wallets if you take more time than you pay for.

Although I don't overtly watched the clock, I admit that I keep an eye on it. Sometimes the guys leave well before their session expires, which baffles me to no end. Sometimes they try to stay longer and I need to politely remind them that they need to go, whether they had their second cup of coffee or not (I've never had one not had their first cup in the time paid for). In any case, yes, I watch the clock; in this business, time is indeed money!

I realize p4p is the acting out of a fantasy. I recognize that TER is (mostly) a playground for hobbyists' opinions. I get that. I get the concept.

Well, this is my opinion: I'm tired of the whining about the providers who choose to see clients back-to-back. Many of us (not all, but many) see as many clients as we can in any given day; if you don't like that, go see someone that you KNOW isn't seeing another person in that day. I'm equally tired of providers getting blasted who aren't adept at unobtrusively watching the clock. We do this; we watch the clock.

I'll get off my soapbox for now.






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It's crazy how most of this is so spot on that makes it funnier.