It's better to get the provider first and then the hotel room.  Getting a room is a sure thing, and the provider, not so much.  No sense in wasting good rent when no one can come over.

Many travelers like outcalls because they already have a room, and don't feel like traveling around a strange city, but many local clients will see outcall gals, especially if they have a favorite who only does outcall.

You should only do a session at your residence if you have absolute faith in the provider in question, and there are no other people at your residence who could find evidence.  (Or they are cool with what you do.)  Also, you should take into account who your neighbors are, and whether they would be bothered or snooping on your privacy.

Outcall is safer than incall for the client from an LE standpoint because LE usually wants to play on their home turf.  That said, busts involving outcall are not unknown.

The term backup plan can involve several strategies.  My backup plan is usually a massage parlor where I can just walk in and find a good gal for a massage and handjob (If I'm lucky, maybe more.)  Some guys will call an agency and with luck will end up with a decent gal, but it's always a bit of a gamble.  Too often, someone will arrange to meet two gals at the same time and cancel last minuted with one when the first gal is on her way (or pull a no show).  This is a rather tawdry part of the hobby, and it also goes two ways as well.  I would wish that people would not do this.

I had a couple questions about this. Well more than a couple. I am planning to stay with in call for the foreseeable future but was curious.

For out calls do you book a hotel room and then try to find a provider? Are out calls mostly for travelers?  Do you ever call them to your residence if you are comfortable with them doing so? Do you consider it safer than incall? It just seems more complicated than going to their incall.

Also I have seen the phrase "backup plan" used when a provider cancels. Assuming you have not booked another appointment, are you just calling your favorites, BP, agency? How successful is this. I dont think I would be comfortable going with someone new with only a few hours heads up.

Thanks,
GT

backup calls

I am a provider and I do incalls at my personal residence. I do this because i feel safer than going to an unknown house/hotel. I can control the variables.

For outcalls I recommend reserving a room in advance for the aggreed time.Say...3pm. Have her call you 30min prior to arriving. Then tell her you will call her within 20min with the room number. Chances are if she called to confirm then she is coming. By not checking in until she is on her way you don't run the scenario that she will not show up and you have a prepaid room all empty...

Outcalls typically are travelers if I go to a hotel. If I go to a residence it's typically a guy who feels more comfortable in his own space,just as I feel in mine.
Keep in mind some provider's will charge upwards of 200 for an outcall.(on top of their normal rate of course) I only ask for 50 extra if it's within 20min of me.

I've always done in calls because I know the area providers go really well.  I guess if I were traveling some where I would prefer in call, since I wouldn't know they area.

Backup plans for me, is when I set up a session with one provider I really want to see, and things don't work out for whatever reason. I'll call another girl and have the session with her. Provider 2 may not be as good as provider 1, but she gets the job done.

Provider first. Then get the room. If she has good review history and contact I guess I assumed gents didn't worry or make "back-ups" with me (you can also request confirmation or email to reconfirm so that IF she flakes, you have the 24 hour cancel window and don't lose the room money, I do try to re-confirm the day before but guess I have not always taken the 24 hour window into account because I don't think I have ever NCNS and as for having to completely miss an appointment I would pay the hotel if he was not already staying there or give a free or reduced session to make up the cost and inconvenience, two way street!) I do many outcalls with local gents, as well as travelers who have a room anyways. I have gone to private homes of single gents and gents I know and trust, saves them money, they might feel more comfy at home, etc. and hotels can get boring (though there is also that element of excitement sneaking off to a hotel for some naughty time

Depends on level of provider- many gents are wary of incall because lower end providers can them manipulate or harass them with a "pimp." It also may bring you to a shady area w/ more police attention or drug activity. Now if you are seeing a reviewed high-end companion, incalls are considered fairly safe if you do your homework, and it is nice to have the provider have a location set up nicely and romantically, but it's hard to find a good incall if 1) like me, you are part time and don't like to see or cannot see due to schedule, multiple gents a day. Financially it is not worth it. Also having pets needing feedings or walks, can make it hard for a gal to go between incall and a home apartment, and many would not compromise their own privacy by combining business and personal in such a way. 2) Full time providers may still have trouble finding a location that is safe and discreet as far as neighbors, for both herself and her clients. It's easier to be anonymous in a big hotel with a big parking garage, than parked outside a provider's rental, but to some gents it may make no difference! But for both parties, it can also be an issue if neighbors are nosy or walls are thin.. hard to find that perfect incall, but if she's well reviewed and maintains one you can inquire, but she has probably taken the necessary precautions for herself and her clients to feel at ease.

Basically, I do not think it is in/out so much as general quality, safety, and review history of the provider herself.

Although, as stated, some like myself are generally outcall only, and thus gents no matter where they reside do the hotel thing-- it is quite common even for locals.

Hope that helps, enjoy and have fun!
XoXo,
Marea

Before I go out to an incall, if it is with someone I am not 100% sure that she will be there, I usually call 1 or 2 other providers and ask them if they will be available. I tell them that I am not sure but I may call them back when I am 100% sure I can make it, this is so they are not expecting me  unless I call back. I do this because several times I have made and appointment with someone and then when I got close to their location, she did not answer. That happened once or twice, so then I started making sure I had other #s with me. Nothig sucks more than making an appointment and 5 or 10 minutes before your session is supposed to start, when you are good and horny thinking about her awesome bod and how great it is going to be, and she does not answer! lol