Hi again, looks like you are making some good decisions. I haven't noticed where you are located, so I am going to use Minnesota as a guide in figuring out what the rates are for the services offered.
"1) starting off only being available one day a week and not booking a room until i have 3-4 guys willing to see me on that day then possibly opening myself to work more days until i can justify renting my own incall place"
Not too bad idea to start with, but with check in times, this limits your time in the room. You will have trouble seeing more than a couple of guys and a "no show" that you are concerned about, eliminates the profitability here. Another idea is book a nice room through priceline or orbitz etc for three days. Afternoon/Evening of day one you can easily see two/three men. You then have a full day on day two for morning guys, lunchtime hobbyists and afternoon and evening guys. Day three might be a nothing day unless you find someone who is an early AM person.
Under this plan, even with 3 hours or so between "dates" you could see up to 9 clients at $150.00 per hour, that's $1350.00 deduct for the hotel, meals and even a no show or two and you still should net at least $750.00. This would be the minimum of course, but if you want to get $200 an hour, you better open up the menu a bit, kissing with tongue and CBJ would be an absolute minimum along with the "happy ending".
"2) Having a 2 hour minimum for appointments and having my rates somewhere in between $300-$400 for the two hours"
Forget it, this will dramatically reduce interested guys. IN GENERAL men looking for a "rub and tug" don't need two hours to get there, and if they are locked into $3-$400 they are going to look for full service, or a VERY expanded menu. If you want this kind of money you can offer an "upgrade" and/or offer FS. Try to regulate the customer LESS than more, you are competing for his money. The more you tell a customer "you must" or "you can't", the more HE WON'T come back.
"3) possibly teaming up with another provider/mentor and renting space in her location per appointment until i can justify renting my own incall place"
This could work to see how much interest there is in your service. Could be a real win/win situation.
"this leads me to another side question what makes hobbyist comfortable or uncomfortable with multiple providers at a location?"
Not the BEST idea, but it wouldn't bother me as long as she was not intrusive. This could also open up some "upgrade" opportunities if the both of you wanted to work together.
"4) Lowering the rates and doing out call until i can justify getting my own place (160 -200 an hour )"
This could work. Not sure how many guys who want a massage want to provide the place though. I have always gone to their place, usually a small office type space.
"how comfortable are clients with coming into providers homes and how professional is it considered if shes the only one living there and has one room for personal use and one for hosting in? I'm heavily considering moving and getting a two room unit because my main line of work is XXX web chat room host making fetish clips and phone sex and and using one room to work in and room for personal use ."
Some would say NEVER work out of your house. One goof ball who knows where you live could end up being a big problem. I do not have a problem going to a providers house if it is clean and properly "set up".
"Some addition notes to consider
- My service is FBSM nude and mutual play no limits"
What does "no limits" mean? Minimum, provide HJ happy ending. If you want to go for those higher rates, add DFK and CBJ, higher yet BBBJ and CIM.
"- I'm a professionally trained massage therapist"
That's all fine and good, but (sorry) few really care! At the money you are looking to earn the men want to have a great orgasm. A great massage is nice, but many of the guys are not going to wait through a "real" massage, they will be looking to "flip" and get the fun started.
"EDIT -- some just gave me another idea lower the price and limit the service cut the price in half and take away the mutual touching are most FBSM fully clothed or does the provider wear lingerie."
You have stated in the past that you are BBW. I don't mind a bigger gal, but MANY here do. This last option frankly looks stupid. You need to make the session FOR THE CUSTOMER. Very few men are going to pay ANYTHING for a regular massage from a fully clothed woman. If you want to do this, start a legitimate/legal massage business, find a chiropractor with an extra room and rent it from him/her and forget the sex stuff and the bigger paydays, but you would be legit.
Your posts have been consistent in wanting to make good money. The less you offer the less you can charge and the less clients you will have, and the harder you will work, try giving 5 or 6 good deep tissue massages a day, your hands and arms are going to be killing you, and after rent, you aren't going to be making a lot.
Get a VIP if you don't have one. READ the reviews of the ladies that are going to be your competition. There are some VERY attractive women doing this, the ones that get the good reviews and the business, are the ones who provide MORE services not LESS. In my area $140.00/160.00 will get a basic (poor) massage and a nice happy ending I have been offered FS (not GFE) for as low as $200.00 with a very HOT massage gal.
Good luck in whatever you choose to do. If business turns out to be really good you can ALWAYS raise your rates once you have become established.