Newbie - FAQ
Once you learn to use the search function here, do a search for . . .
badcollegegirl. She was a newbie a few months ago and asked many great questions about getting started and she received good information.
What you will find is that many newbie topics appear here almost weekly. Sarah gave you good advice as well. As a newbie, some veterans are willing to TOFTT if you present yourself as a warm, caring, lady that knows how to treat a man. Every guy has his own idea of what makes a lady physically attractive. That is one reason why you should post on your local board's theme days.im new here and just wanted to introduce myself
my name is alex. ive been advertising on Another board. thought id try something different
any advice for the newbie would be appreciated xo
Second, read the self help center to get familiar with how ads can be placed here, and what sites you are allowed to link to. I would also highly suggest joining Preferred411.com because that will take away a ton of stress concerning screening, that all of us must do to stay safe. Post on your Regional Board for the area you are in, and get to know people there. Finally, HAVE FUN!! Should you need any personal advice you would rather not post publicly, many ladies are glad to help you.
You have come to the right place! This is the most friendliest and helpful site I have been on. You will DEFINITELY get a lot of help here. Listen to London and here advice. P411 is definitely a good site to join, but you have to get some reviews first. Don't worry they will come.
Do you have a website yet? You may want to start working on that as well.
Good Luck!
Jordan
Congrats on the reviews and P411! This will help you more than you know. ![]()
As these 2 fine ladies mentioned, read through the self-help center; there's lot of information there specific to ladies, like posting ads - which you can do wekly on your local Ad board. Get yourself a website if you don't already have one. This is the perfect board to ask any questions to help you get started and people are always helpful (we don't bite - unless you want us to! LOL!)
Good luck and stay safe
In addition, take the time to check the reviews in your area to see if you have a TER profile already setup. If so, then ask for it to be hooked to your user name (Alex561).
Glad you finally got things going (Jordan). It is always hard before you get a few reviews. Things should be looking up for you now, esp with those great reviews!
You girls were so helpful to me in helping me get started. Alex trust me, don't be afraid to ask the Newbie board anything you are not sure about. Some of the girls don't mind you PM'ing them any questions you may have either.
Damn, they'll probably PM you before you contact them just to check on you and make sure you're okay, and to see if you have any questions they can help you with.
You truly are in safe hands.
Good Luck!
Jordan
It's a fun place. Lots of nice people, and some grumpy ones.
Definitely post on your local board.
badcollegegirl. She was a newbie a few months ago and asked many great questions about getting started and she received good information.
What you will find is that many newbie topics appear here almost weekly.
Sarah gave you good advice as well. As a newbie, some veterans are willing to TOFTT if you present yourself as a warm, caring, lady that knows how to treat a man. Every guy has his own idea of what makes a lady physically attractive. That is one reason why you should post on your local board's theme days.
other review sites by name, that could get you booted off. I didn't read all the other posts, but do read the self help center, it has loads of info for you to guide you along. You can always ask questions on this forum without fear of embarrassment. We were all newbies at some point in time.
Swim
If n when u post the negative bs to follow a post. Like so erodes a good normal question or maybe simple mistake a new bie could make can attract some cyber bullies that well r proble like shriveled up nerds in real life n aren't tough at all. So don't pay attention to me. Real tough guys usually don't prey or prim on women for what I have experienced.
Any hoo for me when I was a news I wasn't I. The system as provider just yet, in order to do that they had me I forget what I had to do I think I may have had to produce a wen site with a ter logo on it? Hmm I forgot you'll soon figure it out cuz you'll have to do it to be log in system as provider. I at first was logged in as a hobbyist when I first signed up, so I ended up goin to hot post review n reviewed my most recent appt! It was with one the mods here it was a fairly hot session n we both enjoyed ourselves, but boy did a catch a truck load of of ridicule after , they would hound me n say yeah she sucks so godam bad she gotta fu kn post reviews of herself n bah bah bah. Whe. Well from an outsider lookin in I hv never been a member so how was I to know I wasn't logged in correctly as a provider but as a hobbyist, n in attempts to get to know lay of land of course I was clicks on this. And clicks on that. Just tryn out all the features avl.
Only advice would be if your sensitive type which I am sure u r not . I am sure most sensitive types do one appt n run for godam hills.
Any hoo I d just say ignore any none that gives u a hard time if u ask a few questions or even god forbid make a mistake when tryn to learn how to navigate on here. There s a few that. Get there panties in a bunch over trivial meaningless little things with newbies, like man, I couldn't believe the reaction when I d accidentally posted a review w me in it now I got fuck. Ragged on so bad. It's kinda funny to see how seriously some take it n how quick they r to be rude to new. People attempting to figure it out, I a. Sure it's bad for business for the owners n scares people off that mA other wise have iutilized it for their advertising .
But it's like prison get off on right foot n don't let people push u around n you l do just fine.
And it doesn't matter of u win the fight as long as u fight. N you'll do just fine here.
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