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ladyjae09 See my TER Reviews 2266 reads
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On my TER ad I adjusted my rates to include the hj.  Therapeutic ad $35/30 min TER ad $60/30 min, what's confusing about that?  Yes my review is confusing because the reviewer came in for a therapeutic massage then at ALMOST the end of the massage he asked if more was offered.  Since I had never seen him before I let him offer extra for the hj. "She said her prices were for therapeutic only ($30/30 minutes). I offered her an extra $20 and she said that seems fair."  I don't MN laws, but in TX the woman has to state price & activity to get taken in.

ladyjae092911 reads

My question is since I don't offer FS how do I let the guys know that I only offer ONE thing with my massages.

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Giamarie Lynn1114 reads

After you receive a few more reviews informing all you are doing more than just a straight massage, you will be good to go as far as your ads are concerned.

Also, you might want to consider stating you offer erotic massage. Upselling for a handjob or blowjob (I can't remember what your review says) has to go. Offer erotic massage including a happy ending without an upsell. Then, when you post in an ad that you offer an erotic massage, it will be clear. As it stands now, the local guys are not clear, as I am sure you see from recent posts.

Good luck.

Xoxo,
Giamarie

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ladyjae09940 reads

Hi Giamarie, thanks for the suggestion about erotic massages. But won't guys expect more on a erotic massage vs a sensual massage? Or is there no difference in the words? My rates in my TER ad are for a hj only, there is no upsell. I don't know where your getting that idea? Is that why the guys are confused with my ad?

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Ripped_Van_Winkle1453 reads

Generally considered one and the same.
Again, if you say no FS in your ads, there should be little confusion.
Your rates will also reflect that FS is not on your menu, as well as your TER profile.

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ladyjae091534 reads

Thanks for clarifying that for me RVW.  I'll be sure to put FS is not offered on my next ad & let the guys know to expect an "ending" that way they know there is no upsell.
Thank you RVW & Giamarie for your advise & suggestions.
J

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Giamarie Lynn1787 reads

My understanding is they want to be certain when booking you that the HJ is included in the fee. They don't want to take any chances with not receiving a HE.

"She said her prices were for therapeutic only ($30/30 minutes). I offered her an extra $20 and she said that seems fair."

Just add the $20 to your fee and then state in your ad you offer sensual or erotic massage. I do not think it matters if you describe the massage as erotic or sensual, given they will be able to see from your reviews what is offered...a HE. Also, if you just include the $20 in your overall fee, you will save both you and your clients from having an uncomfortable talk about money during the appointment.

Reread the following thread and it should be clear what the problem was. http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=108438&boardID=21&page=2

Good luck!

Xoxo,
Giamarie

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Ripped_Van_Winkle2286 reads

Her TER profile does say Massage Handjob.
I think her description of services in her ad should alleviate any confusion.
I did read the text of the review, and the way it was written can cause confusion over therapeutic vs sensual/erotic. The "YMMV" by the reviewer does cause doubt.
You were correct in pointing that out Giamarie :)

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ladyjae092267 reads

On my TER ad I adjusted my rates to include the hj.  Therapeutic ad $35/30 min TER ad $60/30 min, what's confusing about that?  Yes my review is confusing because the reviewer came in for a therapeutic massage then at ALMOST the end of the massage he asked if more was offered.  Since I had never seen him before I let him offer extra for the hj. "She said her prices were for therapeutic only ($30/30 minutes). I offered her an extra $20 and she said that seems fair."  I don't MN laws, but in TX the woman has to state price & activity to get taken in.

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Ripped_Van_Winkle4965 reads

Your profile is quite clear and with the review, there appears be very little ambiguity.

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