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Superficial Women
BaalHammon 2102 reads
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I'm young, and thus far have only encountered really superficial women: Girls who won't date a guy because he is short, or isn't tan, or is not "hot". I am wondering if providers are a different breed, since obviously they see guys who are far from perfect looks wise. Or, are all women superficial, but providers just momentarily put aside their aesthetic preferences to make a living? In the normal world, where can one find an attractive female just interested in a good dicking from an average chap; aka dirty whore? I'm just tired of encountering stuck up women who are 6-7's that only want Brad Pitt material.

Or at least pretend to for a little while. Don't go for counterfeit bills though, that's just asking for trouble.

If your definition of 'superficial' is emphasis on physical attributes, then guys tend to be way more superficial than women.   Most guys don't care how smart or rich or funny a woman is.  If she's ugly, he won't bang her.  If she's hot, he doesn't care what's going on between her ears.  Women, on the other hand, will often be attracted to a less-than-physically-perfect guy who makes up for it in intelligence, wealth, or humor.

If you're not Brad Pitt, then at least try to be less a loser.

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Posted By: BaalHammon
I'm young, and thus far have only encountered really superficial women: Girls who won't date a guy because he is short, or isn't tan, or is not "hot". I am wondering if providers are a different breed, since obviously they see guys who are far from perfect looks wise. Or, are all women superficial, but providers just momentarily put aside their aesthetic preferences to make a living? In the normal world, where can one find an attractive female just interested in a good dicking from an average chap; aka dirty whore? I'm just tired of encountering stuck up women who are 6-7's that only want Brad Pitt material.        

Statements like "good dicking" & "dirty whore" reveals a lot about your attitude. Most ladies, including providers find that attitude insulting, & won't give you the time of day. Ladies have a sixth sense & you don't have to use those words in a conversation for us to see the disrespectful, arrogance. Now, who's the stuck-up one here?!

AGREED. Your writing oozes a dislike of any pretty woman, or rather women in general. Women and people can pick up on this and THIS is why they reject you and there may be other reasons as well but you seem to interpret it as they are not interested due to superficial reasons.

I can't tell you how many guys I date in civie life who are average or less than average looking. looks fade, in the end everyone will turn pruny and old. I'd rather spend my life with an ugly looking broke man who can make me laugh and hold an intelligent conversation and care about me.


Now for escorts...there are some higher class(500+/hr) who only see certain "Types" of clients. But most escorts will see any man who is kind and a gentleman. So you might be out....

Hey babe I got the old, ugly down to the nines and working on the broke part.  I'm college educated, 40 years in business and well traveled both domestically and abroad.  I love intelligent conversation with interesting and unique people (I'm bretting you are both) as well as trips to the museum, the theatre, travel and almost any new experience.  I think I have a well rounded since of humor (well, at least I am "well rounded" - LOL).  Let me know where you are and I find a street corner and I can stand with my sign (PICK ME!  PICK ME!).

By the way, you are spot on with your feedback to this gent.

P.S.  If you don't pick me, I still wish you a wonderful life.  But I will miss you!

If read any of that PUA stuff the message they all have is "have hight standards". When you don't want then if you are otherwise decent guy your might actually get pretty hot girls. I have myself noticed a change in women how they react to me just be setting my standards high. I treat them as friends and not as someone I want to sleep with. I have SO so I've never actually tried to escalate it any further than that 'cause it would cause a whole lot of drama which I don't care. It's much easier and drama free to use a provider. You can see those 9's and 10's without any attitude or need to play the civvie games.

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