I actually had a provider tell me she would not see me because I had too many reviews, I have 45 now, this was a while ago. Some don't want reviews, some want them. In both cases, they have their own reasons, too numerous to list.
Swim
I've yet to post reviews. But I've seen more than a handful of providers at this point. And the 90-day mark is coming up since I've met some of these providers. I'm wondering, what are some of the pros and cons to reviewing for the individual posting the reviews? (I know reviewing is great for the community as a whole, but I'm more interested on the individual level in this case.)
I know one obvious pro is the extra free time added to the membership on TER. Anything else to take into account?
The reason I'm asking is that I had a well reviewed provider ask for my handle if I post reviews during screening. Not uncommon in some cases. When I stated that I didn't, but that I'd offer to write one if they wanted, they actually preferred that I didn't. This made me wonder if there are other providers who would reject clients who write reviews.
It goes both ways. Some providers want to see the number of reviews feeling the more reviews the less likely you are le. Also, the providers you give her for referrence might be the only two who would. She can call the providers listed in the reviews you didn't give her and get a more clear look at you.
Yeah, you're a good authority on this...
... from a guy who claims that he doesn't give a shit about others.
So what if the providers he saw were based in Tijuana??
What point is Crazyshit is trying to make with that bigoted talk?
Would Crazyshit have said the same thing if the providers were from Berlin, Germany?
I doubt it. Aces is permitted to give reviews to any provider he sees regardless of where the provider resides.
Serpius
I've never met or conversed with a provider who said or implied they would not see a reviewer type client. I've interacted with some who said they prefer not to get reviews, buy never that they wouldn't see someone because they wrote reviews.
Did she give the impression that this was the case with her? That she would turn you down?
I didn't get the impression that she would turn me down because of that. It was just strange to hear her not prefer reviews because I never gave it much thought up until that point. Just made me curious.
Did she give the impression that this was the case with her? That she would turn you down?
and what kind of session you like. They also want to know how tough a scorer you are and may not want to see you if you've given girls they know low scores. Also, if they know your review handle and you score them low, they can come after you, even blacklist you. But, if you're worried about that sort of thing you can create a review alias here, so your reviews will be credited to you but not associated with your board handle.
The main reason to review is not simply to get free VIP but to help the community have a continually refreshed resource to help guys find reliable, compatible girls. Assuming you care about that.
So in my case, I don't even use my alias in a traditional manner. It's just another TER screenname as fa as I'm concerned.
Right, but the point is, it's a resources he should know about. There are lots of ways to use it, as well as the board alias you can choose. I know lots of guys who prefer to keep their review alias and board handle completely separate and would never tell a girl what their review handle is. Personally, I don't bother but I know I can do it if things change.
You did your research, you paid for your session, and that's it. You don't owe your so-called "bros" on this site SHIT. The whole "bro" thing is bullshit. If you write a bad review, the girl might get pissed off, blacklist you, etc. And the only thing you get from the "bros"? An "attaboy," while your personal information might get posted all over the internet. No thanks.
If you pay for TER VIP, you get the site's reviews and the resources. That's it...you don't owe anyone anything. Don't be writing reviews for VIP. If you can afford to pay for a provider, you can afford $25 fucking bucks a month for VIP.
Now, if you want to write a review, by all means do so. But just don't feel obligated to do so, because that is utter horseshit.
And if a provider doesn't want you to write a review, by all means respect her.
There are plenty of ways to communicate with others about providers without posting a public review. The best information I have gotten on this site on any provider is via PM or email.
Before anyone starts ripping me apart, do a search under this alias and see how many reviews I have posted.
resulted in great times with hot ladies, then you should be willing to give back to the community by writing reviews to help other hobbyists. Besides, you also help the provider by posting the review.
There have been several ladies I have seen multiple times who have asked me to write another review of our time together. The way TER works is that when a guy plugs in his search criteria, the ladies get listed with the most recent review going to the top of the list.
To me, in the grand scheme of things, the least reason is the 15-days of extended VIP membership.
They help establish the legitimacy of the provider. Newbies in particular are always cautioned to seek "well reviewed" women. If a woman had more than a few reviews, we can feel more comfortable that she is who she claims to be and that it is not a scam.
Of course, the other reasons already mentioned play a key role in our decision making. More than the numbers, reviews give us a glimpse into the personality and performance quality of the provider, important attributes in determining if she is someone that I would like to spend time with.
I actually had a provider tell me she would not see me because I had too many reviews, I have 45 now, this was a while ago. Some don't want reviews, some want them. In both cases, they have their own reasons, too numerous to list.
Swim