I've been reading a lot of the vip reviews.  My biggest question is disease.  I've read about hobbiests dining at the Y.  How do you know that is safe??  Also, there is a lot of unprotected action i've read about.  How do you know this is safe?

Hope to hear from you guys.

This topic has been discussed numerous times. On the main page of the newbie board there is a feature "search messages" Click on it, then put in std or disease in the search section. Set the search at 100 days or more, and then you'll have plenty of reading material, to form your own opinion of what you feel safe doing. Good luck, and remember to stay with well reviewed ladies.

however, note:

1 - that it *can* happen and *how likely* it is to happen are two different things. Incidence of risk *appears* to be very low for daty, moderatly low for bbbj.

2 - a well reviewed lady in this biz is a professional. Her livelihood depends on maintaining her health. You are less likely to "catch" something from her than from an "experienced" civvie

3 - a professional will insist on a condom for penetrative sex. Condoms (other than the lambskin variety) are very effective at preventing the spread of STDs.

4 - anyone playing this games needs to take risk seriously, and get tested on a regular basis, so that they do not infect others, providers or SOs.

Every hobbyist has to decide for himself how much risk he is willing to undertake.

In over twenty years of hobbying I have never been arrested and never contracted an STD.  That doesn't mean that neither can't happen but I do everything I can to minimize the risk and I can live with level of risk that I am taking.

You never KNOW that anything other than abstinence is completely safe.

because they take care of themselves to stay d & d free.  Now, if you pick up a street walker from the corner, you increase your risk exponentially.

Note:  There are no guarantees in life.