Just curious..
I have been with a provider that was $125 HH, and another that would not book for less than 2 hours at $700 and I was with her for 3 + hours for $1,000..and my ATF is $300 H..
I don't do 1-hours, so my minimum date seems pricey to men who seek shorter dates...but, I discount multi-hours pretty heavily. So for a man specifically looking for a dinner companion - my rates are fairly average.
If you book me, you are the only man I'll see that evening (sometimes, that week). Some men value that exclusivity - some don't, and would prefer the convenience of a girl who offers shorter dates and regularly provides incall in their area.
I generally pull out all the stops. Couture garments, expensive toys, high-end massage oil (you can't find the sh** I use in Target). If I book the hotel, it could very well be in a Trump room overlooking Central Park (I've done that for a client before). If it's in a 'normal' hotel, it will be one of their luxe rooms. Champagne and fruit will be provided...if he provides his own wine, I'll appreciate it and might even have traveled to a winery in the same the region... I won't slug it down like cheap beer.
I'd say that I can carry on a conversation...might be fooling myself there
I have a lot of regulars (if I didn't, I'd be broke), so my clients are happy. And that's what counts.
But if a guy is looking for a girl who's more convenient (available now, nearby), or he doesn't particularly care about the setting (just a clean bed, please)...if he's fine being the girl's #2 or #8 of the day...then he will find me very overpriced.
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in all price points, from all backgrounds, and possess different levels of professionalism both in the business part and the BCD part with some being more "mechanical" and others being much more passionate. By using VIP, both to read the details in reviews and PM other reviewers, a hobbyist can find the providers he enjoys spending time with without breaking the bank.
You pointed that the less pricey provider works out of a motel room, perhaps some guys would not like that and would prefer to see the lady who has an incall at a luxury high riser or a 4-5 stars hotel, in financial terms, the provider on the second case will have to charge an adequate amount in order sustain the expenses of being upscale (wardrobe, beauty services, gym, rent), if someone is paying top price to spend time with you I am pretty sure you would expect an upper tier experience that pulls all the stops not only in terms of physical beauty but also, conversation, services and attitude; The scenario has to justify the expense ( I am not saying any case is better, but prices have to do with the overall picture of what the provider offers and how her whole persona looks like). It also depends on her plans (whether she wants to make the most money for a short time or be in this longer). The fact that this arena operates under he rules of supply and demand allows gentlemen to have access to all types of providers depending on his preferences and budget of course.
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were the locations and the perks (Better wine, champagne, more food, men's products, etc.) and the fact that rather than being the only guy that day, they were the only one that WEEK. My looks and performance certainly did not change, as I would never do something like BBFS or Stripper Slide simply for more money. My looks did not get better, because my ass is older lol. I am no more educated at my current rate than I was at the old one in 2011 when I graduated, and my personality is also the same.
Higher end providers differ only in terms of perks, not always looks and performance. If you look at the higher priced girls in the Top 100, most are over 35 too, so that ole "We want young spinners" shit, is only by the guys who don't spend a ton of money anyway lol. A girl charging a hundred bucks can be young, look like a super model, and offer every acronym under the sun, but I highly doubt she will have a private incall location(s) in the best area of town that is NOT her home, provide you with food and wine that costs her 150 out of pocket, and hang your coat in an actual closet vs. tossing it on the floor where her dog just rubbed his ass
With an agency, I saw up to 8 guys per day. Rate at my last one was $400/hr and I got pretty much all 1 or 2 hour bookings, with many guys trying to stay overtime for free. Depending on the agency (there were a few ranging from very expensive to pretty damn cheap) and the time period...sometimes I was seeing dudes who were NOT nice and respectful. So that made me less open and trusting, and put some distance between myself and the client.
Working that much...work was all I did. I read some, but that was about it...hard to schedule something like a class when you're always on call.
Being independent, I like most of my clients...right now, I'm in a very good place. They treat me respectfully and that in turn makes me want to please them and keep them around. I've tossed all my agency clients but ONE...so I don't deal with any aggravation right now...if a client books me for 2 days, he doesn't mention the money and neither do I, and I can just relax, have a good time, and trust that when he leaves and I get my envelope...I will be happy. That makes me more comfortable spending on the 'perks' like you mentioned. I would never have foreseen that kind of dynamic a few years ago.
Since becoming indy...I've traveled to three European countries and several Caribbean ones...I've taken days out to visit museums and take tours of nearby tourist destinations. I've taken 15ish classes. Which I never had time to do earlier. Rather than work, I apply free time toward my goals and passions...which incidentally, are passions that allow me to relate better with many of my clients who have similar interests.
I'd say that girls charging more is actually a win-win situation for both the guy and girl...not that I have any ulterior motive
But seriously, I really do believe that. If I were a guy, I'd much rather fuck myself now than then...lolol
Who wants to give their all for half the rate, and that many times in a day? Fk that.
we are in control of who we see
How we are treated
How often we work
Where
Being Indy means controlling your environment and your client list.
You know everything about the guy walking through the door w/an agency you know his names Tom and you saw him once or never
If you run across someone you don't like or click with DNS him and move n agencies wont always follow your likes and dislikes.
Remember no one is as vested as you are in Your best interest.