A provider that I have known for a number of years suggested I join this site, I travel to a few major US cities on a regular basis- My question is asking for suggestions:

If I know my travel in advance is it best to contact a provider in the city I am visiting in advance so I am certain to have an appointment when I arrive- also how far in adavnce is ok? -

How would I find traveling providers who might happen to be in the city I am visiting when I am there?

lastly, would the provider who recommended I join this site get upset if I asked her specifics about planning a session with another woman- or is that common? Thanks in adavnce for the advise

First:  Become a VIP member so that you can read the reviews.

But, in any case, go to the Review Board and click "Search Reviews"

This will open a page containing many different filters.  The first one you will want is the list of major cites and states or regions.  Click on the area you want, then adjust other filters as you see fit.  You can even filter the ratings.

When you hit select, you will then get a list of the profiles of providers who meet the criteria.  Start reviewing their profiles from which you can also go to their websites.

As far as having more than one woman, that is, in fact, one of the filters you can select.

As long as you are discreet and do not mention sexual activities, there is nothing wrong with asking that question.

I also recommend that you read the Newbies Manual at the top of the page as it will have a lot of useful information about this site and the hobby in general.

Welcome to the club!

Is that what you meant by talking with your provider friend about out of town meetings.

First is your provider reviewed on here because most ladies are just as nervous getting a reference from an unknown as seeing you. In my case if I can't find the provider here and I don't know you then I go no further.

Now as far as your lady friend being open to your seeing someone else, ask her.... I know when I first started here I had long time friends who always talked about seeing someone else. When I figured how the system worked I turned them on to new ladies.

Sign up for VIP and do some research and you might think of checking into one of the verification systems such as DateCheck.

Kisses Haley

I've numbered them to make it easier:

1. If I know my travel in advance is it best to contact a provider in the city I am visiting in advance so I am certain to have an appointment when I arrive- also how far in adavnce is ok? -

If it is more than 4-5 days in advance, I would confirm a couple of times at intervals beforehand.  Particularly if it's your first time with the provider.  If you are going to be in the city more than 4 days or so, you may want to wait until you get there, but the most popular ones can be booked up to a week or so in advance.  Your absolute best bet would be to simply ask the provider you chose how far in advance she suggests you book.  Whatever you do, make damned sure you're going to be able to show, because if you cancel short, or don't show, you'll play hell getting an appointment with her or others in the area afterwards.


2. How would I find traveling providers who might happen to be in the city I am visiting when I am there?

TER has regional boards.  In the drop down menu on the left of this page, you will find a list.  If the city you are traveling to is not in the list, there is an "other cities" board for the rest.  Go to the board for the city and read back at least ten days to see if a traveling provider has posted a "save the date" kind of post telling the TER members that she'll be visiting on so and so dates.  You want to go back about ten days because they are only allowed to post an ad every 7 days, and will time their announcements accordingly.  If you find one going to the city at the same time as you, then contact her to try to arrange a session.  HAVE A PLAN B, because a lot of the provider trips get canceled at the last minute.


3. lastly, would the provider who recommended I join this site get upset if I asked her specifics about planning a session with another woman- or is that common?

That waaayyy depends on the provider and I think only you can really answer that.  You're really asking if one woman will help you get ready to pop another.  A lot of emotion there.  Most providers are not the jealous type, but enough are to make you proceed with caution.

Good luck




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you are visiting.  I sometimes make an appointment a month in advance if I want to see a certain lady and I have limited availability.  As previously suggested, I follow their instruction regarding a confirmation the week of or 24 hours in advance.  Don't be a NC NS or the word will get out quick about you to other ladies.