i spent a lot of time on ter to find the perfect girl. i finally found her and when it came time, i called her up. she was a little late, which is no big deal.

when she arrived, she tried to give me some bs about her "ex-boyfriend" being protective of her. why she thought a ter vip would be dumb enough to not see through that, idk.

as soon as she walked in, she said she was tired and wanted to lay down. i figured that she would just want to talk for a minute and then we'll get down to it. not the case. i tried everything i could think of to get her woken up. we started fooling around finally, and after kissing me twice, she said she couldn't be on top. then we laid side by side and said, 'no this isn't working.' then i got on top for some fun and she said she couldn't do it and started crying. i told her to leave and tossed her something for her time. she then flipped out and called her 'ex-boyfriend.' i had to talk to that guy with his veiled threats trying to explain the bullshit i had just went through. of course he doesn't give a fuck. i ended up giving her more just so she would get the fuck out. and even after that, she didn't want to leave. she wanted to hang out and threaten me, telling me i had better not post a review on ter.

it gets better. when she meets up with her 'ex' she lies about how much i gave her, so of course i get a call from him. he finally drops it or believes me or something happened and it was over.

so i'm posting this to find out what others would do in this situation, while it's going on and now. should i write a review. she does have a couple of terrible reviews, but for the most part, she is very well reviewed. there are a lot more details to the situation than what i've written here. nothing that would make it look better, trust me.

should i write a review?

I'd review her without question...that's the point of our depraved little community here, to save each other from things like this.  I'm sorry to hear you had such a bad time of it...I have to say, I've never been upsold, never had to "force" the situation, in fact, I have had two providers give me money back because one was late and I was late for the other and had to shorten the session to keep my schedule.

Good luck and don't give up, you might find a gap in your research that will avoid this from happening again (not that it's your fault this happened in the first place).

i'd review this sort of situation without question. in fact i'd include all the material in your post. you've got a start on a good review right here.

the only instances in which i don't review are when thee is a chemistry problem (such that i become an unwilling participant) or there is some other such reason.

you have a business ethics and safety concern here and i would never hesitate reviewing an experience like yours.

Definitley review her, also when researching do a critical read of her previous reviews, looking particularly at the number of reviews that each reviewer has written. I am suspicious that the bad reviews she has are probably from the guys with multiple reviews to their credit, and the others are mostly all new or their first review. One terrible review, I might overlook, but when they have multiples, that would be a red flag for me.

I hope you next time goes much better.

and then prepare for vehemence from her corner. She'll probably cry to admin. and the girls on the provider board.

a good start already written in your post.

Also, put a mini-review on the regional board.

I would hope you did your homework and read her previous reviews.  How many of those talked about poor service like you received?

Ned, not to be critical, but you've got 3 review and none of them seem to be very good encounters.  As often mentioned on this board, do your homework and stick with providers with a lot of reviews (at least 10) that are good.  No matter what your taste is, there are lots of providers that will meet your requirements that will show you a good time.  

I would stay away from AMP's, unless you have a recommendation from a friend and can request a provider by name, they are all hit and miss; bait and switch.  The girl at the front desk is smoking hot and the masseuse isn't!

Do your homework and happy hunting.

WRITE A REVIEW!!!

I think guys will overlook a bad review if it could of been a chemistry thing or a no show like I had.

But this crap is what people really need to know about. We are paying for a service here. And the GFE isn't where we deal with a pyschotic broad who doesn't want to have sex with you.

Yes I understand providers have problems, but keep them out of your job, and especially out of our lives.

And you might want to do a better job choosing your dates. The three you have been with either have limited reviews her. Your in Chicago it seems, and there are no shortage of quality providers there.

You probably asked for this type of problem.

She did nothing short of extorting you.
BTW, the boyfriend is more then likely her pimp.

This girl basically ripped you off and the others that you have reviewed are all less than stellar.  Yes, I would review her. If a few other guys had bothered to you might not have made the mistake that you made.

As far as what I would have done. Well, aside from not seeing her in the first place I would probably have told her to leave as soon as she started talking about her BF.  In this business the "BF" is almost always her pimp. Quality ladies don't show up complaining about their SO. Ex or otherwise.

Where did you find this little gem to begin with? Never mind, I'll bet I can guess...

Total agree.  Call this one out.  She's more of the same giving all us good providers a bad, bad name.  Bleh.  What an asshole.

Post a review and make sure it gets seen.  Sorry that happened to you, hon.  I hate to say it but I gotta agree.  Do.  Your.  Research.  A pretty face and a nice body does not a good escort make.

Double bleh!

Your post just says "when she arrived", but it is unclear whether this was an outcall to your residence or a hotel room.  In any event, this is an opportune time to remind newbies that you should never have a provider come to your residence, unless you have met her at least once before.  (Some guys with a lot of experience would say never, no matter how well you think you know a provider.) If you are too cheap to spring for a room for a safe outcall experience, you need to find another hobby, or stick to incalls.

She did not provide as promised.  You had to pay her to leave.  She had her exBF/PIMP/Muscle threatened you/her to extort more from you.  So this was a shake down.  

Please write a review.  
skb

I just read your reviews...  You seem to have started with MPs & CL where many of us started.  You need to read the Newbie Board (link at the top of this board) & invest the time reading back on this board too.  
You really need to get VIP & start over with well reviewed ladies.  Believe me VIP costs less than even one spoiled date.  Figure out how to make the payment.  
I really hated my spoiled date more for the wasted opportunity!  
Best Wishes,
skb

bucks using ladies that shall we say are not of the best quality.  CL, Backpage, and AMP are probably the best way to assure that you have a bad experience as a Newbie.  It looks like you have had 4 now.  Stick to TER reviewed ladies.  There are plenty were you are at.  If you do see a lady advertising somewhere else if you can not research her on TER move on.  Keep in mind one skipped crappy session could have been spent on a well reviewed lady that blew your doors off and left you with a smile and running to post 7,8,9,& 10's on your next review.        p.s.  Yes, please review this provider, what she did was wrong and should be pointed out to others.  
thanks,
Doc

I totally agree with Ralphie, the 1st thing I did was click your reviews and you really need to do more research on the ladies you choose to see

Stay safe
Nico