I am curious if anyone really knows how escorts feel about 1 hour appointments? I own a small business and totally understand promoting services that yield a better profit margin, as I see so many ads coming out now pitching 1.5 - 2 hour minimums and even dinner dates thrown in at no charge with any 3 hour date. However, I am very busy and rarely have time to spend with anyone that long during the week and its not very discrete for me on the weekends to disappear for hours. There is always the issue of MSOG too. I love that this is offered, but Im in my mid 40's and personally am good for one shot, but 2 or 3? Yikes! I just cant. I would not want to put the provider through that LOL, so adding that extra hour does not do much for me and we just end up sitting around, burning up the clock on long dates. I am also in a different mind set with providers on the 1st meeting. Many want more time to give a chance to get to know each other, while I like to do a shorter time incase we dont click! Nothing worse than having a 2 hour appointment with a new lady when the two of you are just not connecting with each others personality. Are 1 hour appointments undesirable to most providers?  

 

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There's of course more money for the provider, less stress about paying attention to the clock, more chance to get to know you and what you like and just an overall better experience. Personally, I'm a fan of leisurely overnights, which is why they are discounted so heavily.  

 (ie, I was dressing up a bit for one gentleman, who let it be known at the end of his second appointment that he actually prefers casual street clothes. I could have been wearing what he liked by finding that out in the first appointment if we had two hours+, since it allows for more chit chat or going out to dinner or what have you.)

But one hour sessions aren't bad. They allow you to see if you have that POW chemistry(not necessary, but really awesome when it does happen. I heart Pheromones. ) They let the provider know that you're serious.

How about schedule one and be prepared to extend? (don't expect traveling providers to always be able to accommodate though, of course)

I offer one hour appts but I really prefer 2hr appts for new friends however not required.
There are some providers who do have a 90min or 2hr minimums because they do not want to offer hr appts.
They cater moreso to the gents who enjoy multi-hour appts.
Sometimes an hour is not enough time for some gents and for others such as yourself an hour is enough.
Everyone is different and there are so many providers who do still offer hour appts you should not have any issues.

she either can't get a higher time minimum, or she simply wants to get rid of your ass lol. All kidding aside, I don't have a problem with hourly appointments in and of themselves. I DO have a problem with MSOG in only an hour, which is why I will never offer any less than 2 hours again. If all you guys wanted was a relaxed hour of massage, oral, kissing, talking and sex with one explosion at the end vs. trying to run the gambit of every acronym known to man, more providers might be inclined to offer them at a reasonable rate.

 A woman asking 4-600 for only an hour actually does not have it as bad as those offering them for less, because the less you charge, it seems like the more guys want. I never understood that, but through experience with rates and time minimums over the years, it proves true.  

The guys who have booked me in the last 3 years are night and day from the guys I saw when I first started out.  

It is also a matter of volume vs. expected or needed income. For instance, if a provider needs to make say 1200 a week and she has a 2 hour min. of 600, she need only see 2 guys. If she charged 300 an hour, she would have to see double that. That is actually the main reason I keep raising my rates and adding time...I don't want to see that many guys.

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90 min or 2 hours are a loooooootttt better.  

And no not in a million years would I paint a target on my back of using a static incall every again and sharing one with multiple ladies is begging to be "detained."  No thanks!

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When you live in an actual city, that rarely is a problem. High rise apartment buildings, mansions split between 10 tenants, off street parking, etc. no one notices a thing especially if you have 3 or 4 major universities all within a 20 mile radius. I had 3 incalls in separate areas of town for 6 years, and never had a problem. I had more problems with hotels where there are always cameras even when you don't see them.  

I know women who have worked from their own homes for years which I would never suggest, and even they said LE was never an issue. I guess if you are seeing 5-10 guys a week, that might be a problem but 3-4 a month? LOL.. You should never just have "one" incall...should have a few, and ones that are easy to get out of.

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I learned that realistically an hour is enough.  I think 90 minutes is great if you know a particular provider very well to the point where you are "friends" and you do not see each other that often.   Then the 90 minutes or even two hours will make sense because then it is like you are hanging out with an old girlfriend.    

The first time you see someone you never can tell where the chemistry is going to go.  That is the reality of the matter.  If you book 90 minutes and you just do not get along, things can be a bit awkward.

I had a static incall in Tampa.  I would definitely say that's a big city.  Never again.  I'm not high volume either.  I also want to be able to travel and I sure as hell don't want to pay for an incall at home and pay for a hotel room too!  And I'm sorry I don't trust anybody to use my incall and not act a fool.  I live in a college town so there are plenty of large apartment complexes that you could disappear in, but I still think it's a bad idea.   It's just not a chance I'm willing to take.  But that's just me

They make a lot of sense and yes, I do like 2 hour appointments with women I have seen before and whom I like spending the extra time with like suggested in a response. Not so much to 'run the gammit' LOL, but because I just like being with the lady. I get lonely sometimes and like spending time with a great woman when I want and with out any strings. Since I'm a 1 shot guy, even in a two hour time frame, I just prefer a massage the second hour, maybe a joint shower, or good conversation. Sometimes, the woman is really into me and she just wants to go again, so I let her even know Im satisfied. I kind of always wanted to meet a well known porn star and do a roll play situation. That sounds fun to me with someone who can really be convincing and pull it off and Id definitely want an extra hour to have fun with that!

I have had a couple of situations that have effected my desire to start with 2 hour appointments. One, the lady began crying because she thought she looked old and was undesirable. That got really weird fast and another time, the lady was OCD about a recent break up and pulled out a book, reading to me paragraphs she had underlined that she felt explained what she was going thru. That one kept telling me how good looking I was and offered a discounted rate for return visits and wanted to ride with me on my work truck. Yea, I dont always want multi hour appointments with new ladies! Both of those experiences I will never forget. I would never give them a bad review because of a broken heart, or one feeling sad over her next move in life, but lesson learned you know? Ive been told on dates I seem like the type of person they can tell anything too. I guess some of these women open up to me in ways that make me uncomfortable, but with others its a good thing. For me, 2 hour appointments are booked with those I know I click with already

I've never had a target on my back, and trust me...I have a ton of haters lol. It also helps if you know a few cops.