I seem to be having a problem reaching providers that I know are available (usually through e-mail). When I call however, I very seldom get a call back. My number isn't blocked. I don't ask any questions about price or service,  just simply a request to contact me to set up an appt. Does anybody have any suggestions?

Did you read carefully how she wants contact made on her site?  Sometimes girls want to exchange info via email and not get a call until the date is set and you're nearby.  Of course, the problem could also be that you don't have the required references and don't meet her requirements.  Hard to say exactly.

Do you give them Your TER handle ? one review with a 2 score isn't going to get you many dates if that's the case

When can they call back? When do you want to meet (day time)? Reference info? I can't say for sure but could be they want this info before they return your call. Especially the part about whether they can call or not and when is the best time to do so. Do you tell them it's ok to leave a message or not?

Just some ideas.

 Great answer!    Don't forget about texting.

For me, how about giving your handle, how you found that wonderful lady (which site) and please don't ask if she does this or that is.  Those items listed are also some reasons for not calling back if that need be.

kiki

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in your voicemail are you specifying that is okay to call you back whenever or at a certain time?
It could be that by the time the provider checks her messages it is past the time you were inquiring on so she never bothers to call you back.
I know when I used to have my number posted many guys would leave messages with no mention if it is okay to call back whenever the message was received.So,I did not call those guys back.
As far as emails go who knows maybe it went into the spam folder accidentally.
I would look at the ad and websites to see how does a provider prefers to be contacted.

Are you sending one of those one liner email "Hey,are you available today?"
If so that could be the reason you are not getting a response.I know I won't respond to those type of messages where a gent cannot even take the time to provide a little info about himself and his reference info.
There could be many scenarios maybe the providers you are contacting are not working when you are contacting them.

I think it is in your approach I would say if you are consistently having problems reaching a provider it has to be in your request.If it is one or two providers who do not respond you could chalk it up to her being busy,not liking your request,or just never received it.But,if you keep having these problems you might want to try a new approach.

PM me for info.

for all of the suggestions. I'm fairly new at this and was trying to be as discreet as possible for both of our protection. In the last case, the provider responded to my e-mail telling me to call her and set up an appt. When I did, it went to voice mail. I left a message and requested that she call me back as soon as she was able to. I did this twice with no response. I've only had two experiences with a provider. One was very good. One was very bad. The latter being why I joined TER. I don't want a repeat of that experience.

I think some girls are just suspicious of people they have never seen before. Many of them already have enough clients and only leave their ads up so that established clients can find their number again. So if they aren't looking for new clients they may not bother to call you back.

I second some of the suggestions ITT. I've had much more success  since I've started making it clear that it's OK to call or text me back, and either give them a time, or say it's OK to do so whenever. Many do not want to call back if you share the line, or are calling from work, that sort of thing.

If a girl still doesn't call you back it may simply be that she gets a bad vibe from you, hey, it happens and you can't really blame them, or she may not need any new clients.

I agree with what the others have said.  Many ladies will not call you back for discretionary reasons, until they know you.  Maybe are just not available the day and time you want to see them.  Not sure how many calls providers receive, but I'm sure it can be a lot and maybe they don't have the time to return all the calls.

for a hooker's life to be a mess.  Not unlike strippers. Many have it all together, many don't. You won't see that when they are with you and deal with you, because that is their job. So it often shows in no call backs, reschedules, delays, and excuses.

Another factor is that many don't actually work well with an advanced schedule, and don't even actually make one, even when they talk to you like they do it. Ever noticed you always need to call the day of, and then are asked to call back again as time gets closer. This is more common than not.

Before the ire of the women that have their act together goes through the roof on my reply, this is not the case with 100% of them. There are some excellent and well organized busineess women out there.

If you are the type of whoremonger that gets to know lots of them them personally, you start to find out about the high level of flakiness. One veteran whom I've had many interesting conversations with over time, and who knows and has known many professional women told me that she has seen substance abuse of some type in more than half of all the pros she has met. That certainly will make being on the ball tough.

Keep in mind that only a fraction of pros are ever going to post on this site, so the quality women posting here are not a representative sample.

I would say when I first started the hobby the reason I didn't get calls back or responses to e-mails, texts, calls, etc. was because I didn't have it together on my end.  I quickly learned and now whenever I make first contact I always provide my name, a brief description of myself, include where I saw the ladies ad at, and include all other information the lady has requested on her ad or on her web site that I feel comfortable giving.  Everyone's comfort level as to what they will provide is different.  I will not give work information or my full name for example.  If the ladies ad says a "whitelist" is an acceptable reference then I will not include references, however I will add a sentence stating that if she would like additional references beyond the "whitelists" I will gladly provide them.  When I do include references I always include a link to their ad and/or web site and tell the lady the best way to contact the reference.  I have never and will never ask about donation amount or services.  If I can't figure those out then I just pass because there are too many others out there where I can easily figure out that information. I only make first contact via e-mail, PM/Inbox, or text.  I personally don't call because I dont want to go through the hassle of providing all this information over the phone.  I believe that the better you sound in your introduction the better the likelyhood you'll hear back and also the more comfortable the lady will be with you when you finally meet.  

Even when I do everything above there are still a few I have not heard back from.  These girls after all are "hookers" and quite a few of them live their lives in total disarray.  Ladies I didn't say "all"!!  Some I have found only are interested if you want to see them "today" or "in an hour".  Some don't check their e-mails or your e-mail goes to their spam and they never find it.  Others forget to charge their phone.  Others voice mails are full.  I could go on and on with the myriad of excuses I've heard, but you get the idea.  

That's just my $0.02 worth.