Just prefer gentlemen that won't haggle on price even though the provider drove an hour for outcall to a roach invested trailer on the outskirts of no man's land with no heat, no hot water, and invested with over 50 cats and two fishtanks that are green and you don't know what's going to jump out at you while the cats are fishing for whatever it is in there. lol

If this scenario describes you, then you are not an upscale gentleman. I had seen a wonderfully nice gentleman in this scenario a couple of years back and he wouldn't tell his god*amn cats to get off my mink coat and the one with the missing tail even tried to bite me when I pulled my coat out from under him!!

Hygiene, personality and a clean enviorment to play is what is considered upscale IMHO. I don't charge anything out of the ordinary or for that matter or even a tip as long as my requirements are met as stated in the first line. But this is always a two way street. If a provider shows up with natty hair, runs in her stockings, and not well groomed, DONT OPEN THE DOOR, TURN THE LIGHTS OUT, AND DON'T ANSER THE PHONE. LOL