...Some ladies are OK with discussing things like donation after screening is done and appointment is set but some are not. You don't know if she is or isn't until you ask. If you ask and she isn't OK with it she may cut off communication or some other unfavorable consequence. Some ladies say specifically on their web site they won't discuss donation, period. This is assuming he asks by text or email prior to the appointment.
Asking once he has arrived at the appointment may work as long as he doesn't bring it up as soon as he walks in. Wait until later possibly during preparing to leave and mention he noticed a change in the donation was posted after their appointment was set. Then ask was the amount he left correct. Frankly in a first meeting situation it's tricky. If they already knew each other it would be a different matter and much easier. She would probably tell him ahead of time. If she is on her game she will bring it up and he won't have to. Hopefully she is understanding and newbie friendly and won't freak out if he does mention it and she would prefer he didn't. To the OP: double check her instructions about how to handle the donation and see if she says anything that may help determine what to do.
I've got an upcoming meet with a new provider I'm excited to meet -- after I booked the appointment her rate went up a small amount on her website ($100 more for a 2 hr meet). Not a big deal to me (happy to cover the difference) but what's the rule here? Would I be expected to know her rate changed or expect her to make a mention of it? I'd ask about it, but don't like bringing up payment via email. Is this something I could/should broach when we meet (presumably later near the end)? Thanks.
... why not do it? Since you're paying her current rate, there's no need to mention it when you see her.
But SHE might mention it. Recently I booked a date with a provider I've seen a few times. A couple of days before our date, I noticed she'd raised her rate $50. She was underpriced for the market IMO, so I thought NBD and that's what I paid. Afterwards I got an email from her thanking me for a great time and for being so generous with the donation.
So I probably could have gotten by paying the old rate. But it felt better to me to pay her current rate.
The only way you're going to find out is if you ask. Don't be shy, just ask her, she's not going to dump you and put you in the friend zone if you ask, don't be shy for no reason.
I always ask about the donation rate even with girls I repeat with because I like things very simple and clear with no misunderstanding whatever so ever about how much I'm expected to bring. Just ask her, that's the easiest and most logical way to fix this issue.
As for rules, what rules dude? We're a bunch of guys illegally picking up hookers for sex, just make things easy for yourself and ask her to clarify on the price.
...Some ladies are OK with discussing things like donation after screening is done and appointment is set but some are not. You don't know if she is or isn't until you ask. If you ask and she isn't OK with it she may cut off communication or some other unfavorable consequence. Some ladies say specifically on their web site they won't discuss donation, period. This is assuming he asks by text or email prior to the appointment.
Asking once he has arrived at the appointment may work as long as he doesn't bring it up as soon as he walks in. Wait until later possibly during preparing to leave and mention he noticed a change in the donation was posted after their appointment was set. Then ask was the amount he left correct.
Frankly in a first meeting situation it's tricky. If they already knew each other it would be a different matter and much easier. She would probably tell him ahead of time. If she is on her game she will bring it up and he won't have to. Hopefully she is understanding and newbie friendly and won't freak out if he does mention it and she would prefer he didn't.
To the OP: double check her instructions about how to handle the donation and see if she says anything that may help determine what to do.
...I would TELL her that I left the amount that was on her website at the time I booked her. That's the price they agreed on. A contract is a contract. Sure it's an illegal contract, but the part about the price should be firm.
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