Hello all,

I am new here and I made an appointment with someone this week. I do not have VIP status so I was not able to read her reviews but I can see that she has been reviewed close to a 100 times and from what I read they are favorable. I did fill out a quick forum online and provided info for references and she emailed and verified our app. I did put my real age on there but after reading that girls usually wont see guys under a cretin age I am a bit worried.  

I also have a few more questions,

If I have an a hour, and I complete within 10-15 min. DO I have to leave after I finish?
Also in the GFE, does that mean like talk and cuddle and all that stuff?
thank you so much

You are right, many providers will not see guys your age, but if she has agreed to see you, don't worry about it.  If she is a quality provider, and with close to 100 reviews, she should be, if you pop within a short period of time, she isn't gonna kick you out right then.  However, this is something you could  have determined with VIP membership by reading the juicy details in her reviews, and if you are going to continue here, you need to get it.  If you write a review, you will get 15 days of free VIP.  

GFE usually will include cuddling, kissing, and chatting.  Again, this is something you could have determined with VIP.  You could also see if she allows multiple pops in the hour.

Seems to me, at your age, you should be banging college girls, not providers.  Just an observation, no big deal.....

Anyway, good luck and enjoy!

Thank you sir,

I would love to be a VIP member but I have no one to write a review about. After this week, I shall have one.

As for banging college girls,
I have yet to find a college girl who looks like she does. Not only that, I leave for Iraq in a month and a half. I want to have a good time before I go.

thanks for your help

Thanks for your service to our country.  If you are leaving soon, then just enjoy your encounter, write a review, and thank her for seeing a real American hero, you, a serviceman.  My hat is off to you, sir.

Swim

I'm going to enjoy a provider soon for the first time and want to know what other first timers think.

ps  That guy who made the college comment is a jerk.  Screw him.

Drumroll I hope you have a great experience with your provider   I can totally get why you want to see a provider...no emotional strings..since you are deploying soon  
Good luck to you  Please do your best to be safe in Iraq and come home safe

When the gentleman made the recommendation to see college girls I don't fell like he was being a jerk. He did not have a very important piece of information as to why the young man wanted to see a provider. My understanding of his advice was to see college girls was just advice I have seen given to a many number of young hobbyist. I agree with him if that was his intent. Seeing providers can become addicting and expensive, and make a young man jaded as to the reality of what the real life dating scene is.

    To the OP I hope you have a great time with the lady you have chosen to pop your hobby cherry. Take care of yourself over there and come home soon. To the provider he is seeing. Please do your best to rock his world and send him away with the best going away present a young man could ask for.

To be honest, under other circumstances I would recommend that you leave the door open to civie dating / sex...  that provider-sex takes the edge off so you can relax & be properly selective with civie dating & not become entangled in civie relationships that you ought not to.  Sex hormones...  to fall for someone you've had great sex with...  is very strong and it's easy to get into a relationship to nowhere just because of it.  (In retrospect, my ExW was one such.  I can see there were periods in my life which would have been much better off to have had fun with providers & skipped the drama.)  A pending long separation does not make for well thought out decisions.  I support your plan of action.
 
A well reviewed GFE provider should be all inclusive for the whole time you have reserved.  It probably will not be all action but there likely would be time for a second shot.   Just be a bit guarded with your emotions.
I thank you for your serice.  Have some fun before you go.
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Your interpretation of my comment was spot on, that was indeed my intention.  I do wish the young man the best, and thank him for his service to our country.

If she has set the appointment, there should not be a reason to worry!  Just relax and have a great time! If she has a website, check out to see if she is GFE/MSOG or things like that. Especially with 100 reviews I would think you should have a great time for your hour

Personally, in my civie life the other day I met a very young man serving in the military. We had a few drinks while I was waiting for a relative's plane to arrive. It was a wonderful and enlightening experience as I don't know many military people - this also led to my changing some information on my website to be more accommodating towards the military.

So stay safe and thank you for your service!