Still semi newbie here and need help understanding Northern VA lingo and also general advice in how to have a better experience than my first couple attempts... Reading actual reviews in this area of course has helped me a lot, but still have general questions tailored to northern va area...

Depending on who you're seeing in NoVA GFE and GFE+ will mean different things. I tend to frequent the K-girls and GFE is not pop and out the door. You'll get the full time. My more limited experience outside that seeing is the others in the area are also respecting the time paid for. Sounds like you were getting taken -- perhaps because you are a newbie and acting like one. Perhaps just poor research and got with providers lacking good service.

GFE experience usually includes multiple pops, at least where I'm from. But that's an elastic phrase, and it means different things to different providers. I don't take anything for granted on that count, and pay careful attention to reviews. If you're seeing unreviewed girls, I wouldn't.  

GFE = Kissing, BBBJ, DATY, etc

This goes for any city just not VA if you pay for 60min,90min,2hr,3hr you should be able to stay for the whole duration of your appt.Not after you pop and there is still plenty of time left in your appt and she kicks you out.You are not dealing with a reputable provider.Not sure where you found this provider you mention you saw on the West Coast.But it sounds like to me she knew you are a newbie and she took advantage of you plain and simple.She tried to upsell you on the phone then you got there she did another upsell on the rate and then told you leave while you still had alot of time left.That is a bait and switch and not a sign of a reputable provider.

Awesome lady, and thank you for your attitude Miss Jaydalee.  But they're are plenty "reputable providers" that will hint that it is time to leave after a client has went.  I have seen some ladies and asked for certain outfit requests, just to show up and hear "oh I didn't pack heels"(my fave).  These are the facts, some ladies are good hearted in nature and want you to have a good time and return, others just want that $500 or so and on to the next one.  

Should have added, though again it depends on who you're talking about, GFE+ can mean CIM and that is what the extra 40 is for. Again, not universal in usage but that was one setting where the term was specifically applied in NoVA.

- I am in DC,MD,VA... and I don't think there's a difference on plus or gfe but more about upsell a service. (But everyone has the right to manage their business how they want). Personally I think the roses thing is stupid, I have my rates of my time. (Because thats what I advertise) ... lol but to each their own.  

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Still semi newbie here and need help understanding Northern VA lingo and also general advice in how to have a better experience than my first couple attempts... Reading actual reviews in this area of course has helped me a lot, but still have general questions tailored to northern va area...  
   
 1) What's the difference between "GFE" and "GFE plus" and what does that even mean especially for a new male client to a girl?    
   
 I know GFE means girlfriend experience but in reality, I didn't really notice much difference when I was in the west coast recently.  No matter what it is usually "cum and you're out" (even after 5 minutes of doing the deed!).  What's the difference between "GFE" and "GFE plus" here in Northern Virginia?  Seems like only $40 difference, which is weird to me.  
   
 2) how to choose appropriate "length of time" for a new male client for a girl?  
   
 I recently was in west coast, purchased 60 minutes outcall.  I was a brand new client to her.  She tried to recommend on the phone 90 minutes as "60 minutes was introductory".  When she got there instead of 300 roses as advertised, it was actually 600 roses to actually have sex.  I did have it on me at the time, and wasn't thinking with my brain, so I paid it, however, to make matters worse, she was just there for 20 minutes and then left as soon as I chummed. Really left a bad impression for any "roses"/price that is advertised online to me.      
   
 I just want to be better prepared next time with my own expectations and what's really behind the roses quoted on websites sometimes and what is reasonable/how it works in northern va.  Are prices around here generally what's advertised?  I know TER helps a LOT in that regard because I can see the last review and see what they did and how much they paid.  
   
 3) No matter which length of time I go for: 45, 60, 90, 120 minutes etc, do I still get kicked out after 5 minutes if I cum during the deed?    
   
   Should I jerk off and cum before I see them so I last longer and enjoy it longer (the full time length I purchased)?  I just don't do this very often so I'm super excited about the whole experience and tend to cum really fast.  Do they get not happy in general if you are with them longer than 20 minutes (but you paid for 2 hours?).  I don't want them angry at me of course.  The more relaxed they are with me and the more I'm super nice/sweet to them, in general, the better experience I have with them.  
   
 3) What's the best way to ask for light things that turn me on that, in my limited experience, might not be that very typical for (especially if their English is limited or they have a routine and massage is first?).  Such things as:  asking them to put on or keep on their lingerie?  bra/panties?  asking them to take it slow with me and don't undress right away.  Just light touch/foreplay in just undies for a while (she touch me, I touch her? Sex with her lingerie/bra/panties on (turn on for me too).  
   
   I've had trouble figuring this out (if it's even possible).  They always greet me in nice stuff but pretty much every single one of them strip immediately and for me feels way to fast, not as much turn on sometimes for me.  
   
   Of course I know just simply attempting communicating what I want is key, but don't want to appear pushy, demanding, or make them feel uncomfortable with me (if they are uncomfortable, the experience is definitely not a nice, I've learned through forums).  Also sometimes English is difficult for them so that's a challenge to sometimes.  
   
   Thanks so much for your own experiences and advice about all of them especially about the northern Virginia area.

I can hardly remember the last time I was rushed out of a session before my time was up.
I do know that when it does happen Iwill not be seeing said provider again and it will make part of the review as performance number and on the narative as time being shortened .
Did happen more then once before TER but not since.

By "tricks" are you referring to masturbating beforehand? I don't consider that comparable to unnecessary Viagra use. The OP may be going about it too deliberately, but the fact is that most guys have to consider how best to line up their on the clock and off the clock pops, so to speak. To some it doesn't matter. They pop when they pop, and let the cards fall where they may. For others, timing things wrong can be a waste of money.  

have TER VIP so you can read the juicy details in the reviews to see if the provider offers MSOG? (2) Was this provider well-reviewed--meaning did she have multiple (6 or more) good or better reviews from established reviewers?  

> I do have an hour date but I don't take those as priority to be honest.  

Thanks everyone.  Super good tips.  Yes I tried to contact reviewed girls however they were busy, I wanted to see someone that night and contacted a non reviewed girl.  Lesson learned big time.  My own fault.  Will never do that again.