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DATY/BBBJ?
spunkymonkey3030 1 Reviews 2059 reads
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So, my next question being a newbie here is, I see a lot of DATY and BBBJ in the reviews here and sure I'm a fan but I'm just wondering, "Isn't anyone worried about bringing something back to their girlfriend or wife (STD)?" Or am I just living in the dark and all diseases were cured and I just didn't get the memo?

that you do in this hobby, however I know ORAL is the lesser...  

If you are worried, just have her do a CBJ and use Dental Dams to daty...

 
This will give you peace of mind while you may still enjoy the experience.

ROGM641 reads

I'm not Worried. I'm Single. No Wife or Girlfriend to bring anything back to.

Well I guess you have a point there. I do have a girlfriend, but... to each his own.

the chances of you catching something from her are very slim.  If it's her only source of income, she can ill afford not to stay disease-free.  That doesn't mean it won't ever happen to someone, but, I might add, it's far less of a risk than picking some chick in a bar and taking her for a romp.  

Swim

Well you have a point there, I guess we could say that. Even in the porn industry though where it's mandated that everyone is tested so often, HIV is or was rampant and a lot of those women now work in this industry or hobby as well. Of course like anyone I like the idea of a BBBJ and some DATY myself but it's just a little worrisome. I get your point though. Thanks.

tg_baby456 reads

I know I've said this already, but a provider CAN afford to get a disease. Who would know? If someone caught something from her, they can't exactly go to the newspaper - or even the boards, or PM. People would be very skeptical if the girl was well-reviewed, etc. It's not like the guy can furnish proof. And if she has his personal info, he's definitely not gonna say anything.  

Look two pages back on the NY board to read about some insane risks being taken. Not trying to judge, just pointing out that, while it isn't SMART for providers to take risks with their health...it doesn't stop them in any way from doing so.

If you're worried about catching something see a non-gfe provider that doesn't offer those services. That way you have nothing to worry about.

But if I ever do get serious with someone you bet I'll get myself tested before becoming intimate.

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