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Non-disclosure of a second trimester pregnancy is unacceptable
HookerWithAHeartofGold 1263 reads
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...You do have a right to turn a provider who has not accurately represented herself away.

As a provider I'm thinking that the provider who arrived at your door is probably playing the sympathy card (who would turn away a pregnant provider attempting to survive?  Feed an unborn child?).  Little allowances (changes in hair color, slight weight fluctuation, differences in makeup application/cosmetic approach) are appreciated by the honest provider.  A good provider may even make you aware by noting that she has recently cut her hair or changed herself in some way.

The provider who arrives at your door fully pregnant without disclosing it is displaying an obvious disregard for the feelings of the client while expecting to command the fee.  This is inappropriate and shouldn't be rewarded with continuation of the appointment.  The correct response would have been to simply say that that wasn't what you bargained for.  In instances where a client flippantly decides he doesn't want to continue with the appointment a $50 cancellation/transportation fee would be responsible and professionally courteous- but in instances where the provider has erred it is NOT required.

Good luck-
But this isn't par for the course.  Most providers who become pregnant take pregnancy leave OR advertise as a pregnant catering to those who find female pregnancy attractive or arousing.

panda32949 reads

Hello

   I had my frist provider come over a couple weeks ago and she been doing it less than a year and here it is my frist time so we are both scared a little. My problem is this when she got to my place what she didn't tell me was she was 6 months pregnaut and so now I had a hard time being excited and thing's were just ok was not want I was looking for.

    So was I having a hard being excited from being nevers or her being pregnaut? I think it was both but to help me with my next provider is there any suggtions how I can relax or is it just she scared be a lot with showing up like that?

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tmtlr271785 reads

I think I speak for everyone in that my first time I was nervous my first and sometimes still get nervous when I meet a new provider for the 1st time!

Her showing up 6 months pregnant would have made me even more nervous too and I might would've have turned her down. I know if she didn't share that with me and she just showed up that way now, I would probably turn her down. I might give her some $ but wouldn't go thru with the act.

That's my .02 but your second encounter will not be as bad.

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Bostonguy571753 reads

I would suggest you stay away from younger girls until you are more experienced yourself. Gals with a bit of experience under their belts will help you to relax.

As far as the lady you saw. Did you find this lady on TER? No reputable provider would neglect to mention that she was six months pregnant before taking an appointment.

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panda31440 reads

I found her on rb ( redbook )I found ter later but no one is saying anything about her being pregnuat so I just posted review on ter hope this help the next few. She ask you please don't write in review. For her being youger she is 37 but only in her frist year that I didn't know till she got here to.
To other person about sympathy card yes I am a softy new she needed the work or she play me very well and saw I was a sucker. paid in full.

I am working on new provider now we have talked but so worried about the bad expercise, hope I can get excited.Normal I don't have that problem friend says she blew your mind you were not ready for that at all.

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HookerWithAHeartofGold1264 reads

...You do have a right to turn a provider who has not accurately represented herself away.

As a provider I'm thinking that the provider who arrived at your door is probably playing the sympathy card (who would turn away a pregnant provider attempting to survive?  Feed an unborn child?).  Little allowances (changes in hair color, slight weight fluctuation, differences in makeup application/cosmetic approach) are appreciated by the honest provider.  A good provider may even make you aware by noting that she has recently cut her hair or changed herself in some way.

The provider who arrives at your door fully pregnant without disclosing it is displaying an obvious disregard for the feelings of the client while expecting to command the fee.  This is inappropriate and shouldn't be rewarded with continuation of the appointment.  The correct response would have been to simply say that that wasn't what you bargained for.  In instances where a client flippantly decides he doesn't want to continue with the appointment a $50 cancellation/transportation fee would be responsible and professionally courteous- but in instances where the provider has erred it is NOT required.

Good luck-
But this isn't par for the course.  Most providers who become pregnant take pregnancy leave OR advertise as a pregnant catering to those who find female pregnancy attractive or arousing.

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WHOOPS1231325 reads

In my opinion this is a clear case of misrepresentation; you would have been well within your rights to cancel session without paying a fee.  I bet she was  not pregnant in the photo she showed. this is as close to a bait and switch without being a bait and switch that I've ever heard of.  This was clearly the providers responsibility to inform you of her condition.  Stick with the well reviewed ladies of TER and as long as your a gentlemen and treat them well you will have a blast.  dont let this one bad experience worry you about the future ones.  I too had several bad providers myself before i found TER, but since its been a wonderful experience.  Dont be afraid to let the provider know your new to the hobby and TER and you'll have a blast.

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missbrookesong1414 reads

I completely agree. Leaving that part out is in a way false advertsiing as she most certaintly does not look like her pictures do. As hookerwithaheartofgold says, she was probabaly playing the sympathy card. It was right that you paid her for her time but the fact that she asked you not to write it in the review is proof in itself that she knew it was wrong as well. Don't worry, just find yourself a well reviewed provider as they have a rep to maintain and are least likely to falsely advetise. Well good luck with your next rendezvous. I'm sure it'll be fine.

Brooke

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mrfisher1314 reads

IF she did post this fact on her ads, she'd most likely get a great response because pregnancy is a big turn on for some of us pervs.

So she really is shooting herself in the foot here, twice-fold.

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Timbow1672 reads

I would have an easy time showing her the door:)

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