New to this hobby, as the title suggests, I live in a small town, so needless to say, pretty slim pickings as far as providers (unless I want to roll the backpage dice).  I was wondering if others are/have been in similar situations.  I don't really travel much and since I am married, its kinda hard to drive 2 hours to visit a provider.  

The only options that I see is to have providers come for extended visits (3+hours).  Now I don't live in a "one stop light" small town, so we have plenty of hotels to maintain a level of anonymity.  Does anyone have any advice in finding and working with a provider?  Do I try and find a regular provider that travels through?  Am I SOL?  Thanks!