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As a provider bad reviews are sometimes hard to take especially for us who are vain(I admit I am sometimes)
I may not be a 10 in appearence but I've been told my performance is either a 9 or 10.
Since looks are biased I say take the two scores of performance and appearence and average them together.
If both were a 5-5 then she was 5.
We providers are humans too.We gain weight, break a nail, lose our tan, and have the apartment office knock on your door in the middle of a session(they were not expected may I add) Shit happens
However I do believe in honest reviews. If I had a bad day, or had bad chemistry with a guy I might inquire as to why I recieved a bad review.(which has yet to happen) I might get a little upset but in the end everyone has their opinion. I've seen a guy another provider told me "Was just aweful" and he turned out to be one of my good regulars whom I rather enjoy seeing!
But what is NOT acceptable are malicious fake reviews. I have one such review on a little website called usase*guid*.com . This particular guy never saw me and only corresponded in e-mail. He wrote a review saying I was dirty and smelly and my incall was not safe and I was probley into crack or other drugs.(He wanted to pay for not even a quarter of my hourly rate and I refused to let him negotiate my rate to a street walker level) I've had a couple guys draw this review to my attention and get skeptical...but then I flash my 15+ reviews elsewhere(and even the 2 good ones on that same site) and that usually wins them over.
Long story short is be honest and not malicious. Write a review but don't for instance say "the provider has gained 20lbs since photos" instead opt for a nicer route..."provider's pictures are a bit outdated and this was a problem for me."
DON'T answer her angry emails unless she is collected and not throwing slanders and hate and threats. Tell her simply "I rated you based on what I experienced. I'm sorry that offends you."
My first go at this here "hobby" in the US didn't go so well. The girl had gained a lot of weight since her photos were taken. I should have suspected something since her last review was July 2010. Anyway, I was expecting a 8-9 in appearance and she was not that at all. I gave it a chance but other factors came in. I wrote a review detailing my experience giving her 5 - 5. She is very angry about this and says she will write about me on her "provider board". While I feel bad that my review may have hurt her feelings and/or income, she deserves the rating I gave her. In the spirit of TER I felt it was my duty to write a truthful review but now I'm wondering if I shouldn't have. Has anyone had to deal with this type of event ?
And here is the link on the advice I got:
Performance is much less so.
The interuption by the landlord is unexusable. She should have given you a free session and a makeup at a HOTEL to avoid this in the future.
I can't take any issue with that.
If not for the landlord hassle, I think your session might have rated a 7.
You can't fault a gal if the chemistry isn't right, just for what she does, or doesn't do.
Per Mr Fisher... I would have rated her performance on her actual ability (assume no distractions, etc), and talked about that a bit more in your review. Maybe that's what you did, but I thought it sounded like she was better than a 5 based on what you wrote, and that some of the score was due to distractions and chemistry.
Not saying you need to change your rating, but that's my thought.
Bottom line, we all review rate differently. Until they give you a separate way to rate the other aspects of your session, this will happen.
because your head is elsewhere or distracted (in this case by landlord), the you are doomed to failure this time. Appearance should not be reflected in performance. From what I read, she performed but you just couldn't make it happen.
If the apearance is 15-20 lbs heavier or 10+ years older than the pics, Then you rated here properly. The apearance is what you paid for and if she isnt close to what the pictures say then it hurts the experience overral.
If she managed to make me change my mind and somehow made me overlook that her picture was misrepresented, than she would get a much higher performance rating, but she didnt so the low apearance/performance go hand in hand. I think you did the right thing this time.
Don't feel bad. My first review didn't get published but I made the mistake of telling the lady about it thinking she would be pleased because I gave her an 8 for looks and 9 for performance. She was highly offended and told me to take a hike. Go figure. I'm not doing reviews any more.
She had no reviews at the time but she does now and the funny thing is they are all about the same ratings as mine.
These are all very good examples of how the review process can get corrupted and there are many others. That's why I prefer providers with more than ten reviews (several pages, in fact) and with very high numbers. It's the only way to be as sure as possible that you'll get someone damn good. Even if her scores are inflated and she's not really a 9 or a 10, even if she's an honest 8 it should be fine, I figure. I've been lucky so far, with almost all the gals I've seen in the past few months living up to their reviews.
As a provider bad reviews are sometimes hard to take especially for us who are vain(I admit I am sometimes)
I may not be a 10 in appearence but I've been told my performance is either a 9 or 10.
Since looks are biased I say take the two scores of performance and appearence and average them together.
If both were a 5-5 then she was 5.
We providers are humans too.We gain weight, break a nail, lose our tan, and have the apartment office knock on your door in the middle of a session(they were not expected may I add) Shit happens
However I do believe in honest reviews. If I had a bad day, or had bad chemistry with a guy I might inquire as to why I recieved a bad review.(which has yet to happen) I might get a little upset but in the end everyone has their opinion. I've seen a guy another provider told me "Was just aweful" and he turned out to be one of my good regulars whom I rather enjoy seeing!
But what is NOT acceptable are malicious fake reviews. I have one such review on a little website called usase*guid*.com . This particular guy never saw me and only corresponded in e-mail. He wrote a review saying I was dirty and smelly and my incall was not safe and I was probley into crack or other drugs.(He wanted to pay for not even a quarter of my hourly rate and I refused to let him negotiate my rate to a street walker level) I've had a couple guys draw this review to my attention and get skeptical...but then I flash my 15+ reviews elsewhere(and even the 2 good ones on that same site) and that usually wins them over.
Long story short is be honest and not malicious. Write a review but don't for instance say "the provider has gained 20lbs since photos" instead opt for a nicer route..."provider's pictures are a bit outdated and this was a problem for me."
DON'T answer her angry emails unless she is collected and not throwing slanders and hate and threats. Tell her simply "I rated you based on what I experienced. I'm sorry that offends you."
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