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StartingOffRight 6402 reads
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Greetings all! I hope this post finds you in good spirits and enjoying your hobbying.

First, I am using an alias because I am completely new and plan on writing a review after my first session and don't want to reveal my provider until after, just in case I ask any wrong questions on this post and prevent my visit before it even starts. Though if she reads this she may figure out who we are anyways! If you do, don't get mad! I am REALLY wanting this to work out and have a meeting with you! I hope you guys don't flame me too much and can forgive my transgression with the alias. If I decide to do this regularly, I definitely want to get started on the right foot with the providers.

I have done my due diligence and homework. I have read the newbie guide and also browsed through the last 20 pages of this forum (500 threads). I know what to do with the donation and what not to do or say until things get rolling. However, due to my paranoia, I want to see what you experienced guys and gals think of my potential meeting.

My provider of choice has 11 reviews, an ad on P411, local city-vibe, and a personal page on escort-site. Her rates are plainly listed on each, and no mention of specific activities other than we will have a great time. However, a couple things that I thought I should ask about came up in researching and initial emails:

1. At one point, there was a six month gap in reviews (regular reviews for about 9 months, then a 6 month gap, then 3 more reviews in the last two months). All 11 reviews were very favorable and explicit. Two of the reviewers in the last two months have at least 15 to their credit (one had that many, while the other one even more). The third Person only had two reviews. Any cause for concern with the review gap? I know there can be many reasons for it (steady regulars, break, etc.). I am just worried of some sort of profile hijack, shills, or something (LE taking over profile or provider assisting LE).

2. In our initial emails, she asked for a pic of DL and business card.  I have no problem emailing these and asked if I could block out some info (block actual street address but leave city and zip, block all name but first and last initial, block company address and last 4 of telephone). She was fine with that, and said that wasnt going to call my job and that she just needed confirmation of my P411 account and that i have a job other than LE. Should i be concerned about that? Specifically that she mentioned the words LE and that she is allowing me some privacy at this stage?

She seems to only do outcalls...that means I have most of the control as to where we meet right? We have to mutually agree to a location of course,  but I would be the one reserving the room (if she doesn't come to my residence)?  Any chance of her bring unwanted people along? Haha.

Thanks for your time and I greatly appreciate input from both providers and clients alike!

rkl 22 Reviews 1164 reads
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I'm relatively new to the hobby myself (a few months) but this seems pretty legit.  Concerning the gap in the reviews, I might be more worried that she's physically changed or altered her services during that time, but if newer reviews haven't indicated this, I wouldn't worry.  

Seems like you've done a lot of research, which is a credit to you.  I would add to remember to leave your stress at the door and have a great time!!

StartingOffRight 806 reads
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I haven't sent her anything yet but if I am blocking out all identifying information, is it a problem? If I have no references and she is asking fir additional screening, what else am I supposed to do?

I forgot to mention in the original post that I PMed the last two reviewers for confirmation of services and everything being legit.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 1422 reads
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to protect from identity theft.  Maybe just show first name and first initial of last name, city & state on both.  John H, Anytown, NY

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