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No Shows
swimtrekr 58 Reviews 781 reads
posted
1 / 10

One no-show is one thing, but several?????  Something is wrong with your provider selection, IMHO.  I don't know where you are finding them, but my guess is you are not being very thorough in your research of them.  Jayda gave you some good pointers on researching the ladies.

If you are on the Reviewers only board, you can post there.  Be careful about posting names though, tell guys what happened, but have them PM you for definite info about identities.  Same advice goes for posting on the regional board.

For future encounters, be more thorough when you check on the ladies.  If you don't have VIP, get it.  The providers should have a minimum of 6-10 reviews by reviewers that have done at least that many reviews to their credit.  While this will not guarantee a satisfactory encounter, it is a great start.

Good luck,
Swim

ImReadyRU 1466 reads
posted
2 / 10

I have had a rash of no Shows lately. Even on a no show I waist about an hour and 1/2 of my time with driving and waiting. I only wait 15 mins now.. My new rule.

Should I post a review?
Should I make a post on the local board?
Should I ad crap on her ad?

Or Do nothing..

Just looking out for my fellow hobbyists!


jaydalee See my TER Reviews 823 reads
posted
3 / 10

It always sucks when one's time is wasted because another was not courteous enough to cancel or reschedule.You cannot post a review here for a no show you actually have had to see the provider to post a review.If you are having a rash of no-shows it might just be the kind of provider you are selecting?
Are these well-reviewed providers or are you TOFFT?Either way I would be a little more selective on what providers you contact.No-shows do happen but a pattern of no-shows is not typical.
You could post on the local board if you have given time to allow the providers to get back to you and you have not received a response.Or you could just backchannel this info.
My advice would be just to leave it alone and go with well-reviewed providers read their reviews and see if there is a history of no-shows.
Good luck to you!

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 510 reads
posted
5 / 10

15 minutes is a good rule..move on..you will get ncns till your dying day..i do nothing..if you start giving her shit in anyway she can shit on you..she can blacklist you..you do not want that..hell hath no fury like a woman,s scorn..dont play with fire..let it go..move on..you will a lot better off in the long run..

One-Man-Gang 1231 reads
posted
6 / 10

That is the right thing to do. Moving on and saying nothing is probably what the hobbyist prior to you did.    

One-Man-Gang 263 reads
posted
7 / 10

First of all not all members maintain VIP and have lapses. Why should they be excluded from obtaining the info?
The discussion boards are for everyone, not just VIP's. In addition, if the OP does not have VIP himself he won't be able to send of receive PM's.

Posting of NCNS's should be encouraged.

swimtrekr 58 Reviews 646 reads
posted
8 / 10

Reason I said use PM's is to keep the WK's and manginas from bombarding the OP with posts.

Swim


One-Man-Gang 375 reads
posted
9 / 10
Noonie101 19 Reviews 602 reads
posted
10 / 10

You are probably right.
Saying something probably is best, I goofed by not doing so when I was stood up my first and last time.

I was stood up by a provider a month or two back... Diamond Belle.
What amazed me was that an apology didn't follow.

I can certainly understand that something came up at the last moment... Or a provider changed their schedule at a late moment because they had only one booking in the nest tour town, etc, etc.

What I can't excuse is the common courtesy to send an apology note.

I was brought up with common courtesies. I know many were not. But learn it in this biz.

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