Greetings all,

A complete newbie here.  I read a lot about screening, etc and followed the advice of many on here and started a a P411 profile to add a reference to my portfolio.  With that in hand I found a provider in the top ten in my city with over 30+ reviews that was too my liking.  Nervous as all can be I contacted her and was asked to speak with her scheduling secretary.  In speaking with him, to my surprise, he didn't ask any real screening questions, just an open ended tell me about yourself.  I gave a brief answer about my age and what I do for a living and that was it.

Should I be nervous screening was so easy?

he can sound as nice as can be..but believe me they WILL screen you..they know exactly what they are doing and are very efficient at it..he has an investment to protect..her..

When will the screening occur then?  I was under the assumption it was when I called to make an appointment.  Should I expect a call back?

With 30 plus good reviews, I'm sure you will be fine. Some providers have different ways of screening. They may have researched your phone number and or email address (however you contacted them). Some just go by gut feeling. Some actually don't screen, and while not screening can raise red flags, someone with 30 reviews should be fine. Other ladies have secret methods they won't (and shouldn't) share. I'd say you're good to go, but don't expect the same thing from the next one you contact. The next one may ask for your p411 info, your work info and your id. Many ladies are different in what they require. You have to decide what you are comfortable giving.

She got P411 information from me and a reference. Tow hour later, she contacted me about the time slot that I wanted. The woman appears to be cautious. I am confident that she knows what she is doing and screened me to her satisfaction. In addition, the method that she contacts me is reassuring also.

if she has over 30 reviews, you should be fine.  She didn't get that many reviews by not providing good service.  Her assistant knows you have a P411 profile and can get verification from them, that's what the site is for.  Believe this, the questions and discussion you had with the scheduler helped him screen you.  They are not there to learn your life story, but enough about you to let them know you are an ok guy.  BTW, you should get VIP membership here.  That will allow you to read all the necessary details of the provider that you can't otherwise see.  With it you can also PM reviewers to see if there is any further info about a provider that may not have been in a review.

Swim