I recently have seen a high end provider and we have developed a great relationship,,,we talk, text all the time and when we get together i pay for an hour but we spend up to 6 hours together. We were just togther and after dinner and drinks we had sex several times with no protection. I didnt even think about it and she didnt bring it up,.,,,how worried should i be for a STD?
It is a known fact that the chance of contracting an STD increases in direct proportion to the number of sex partners that you or your sex partner have experienced. In other words, if you (or friend) have only one sex partner then the chances are lower than if you have 100 sex partners. So you do the math.
If the provider offered BBFS to him after becoming comfortable with him, howmany others has she offered to? And for those to took her up on the offer, how many newly acquainted women have they had BBFS with? The possible number of ports of entry for an STD in such a chain can be staggering under certain circumstances. That is why BBFS with any stranger or person that can't show a test result with no sex between the test result and the encounter with another person, is a bad idea.
First weird, you pay for an hour and get 6 hours, doesn't sound normal.
Second weird, the most obvious one, are you nuts to go unprotected with a girl who bangs guys for a living. When I first started doing this I was shocked to hear from providers that guys ask for that, alot. Not as naive as I used to be as I know it happens or at least guys try but I still think it crazy. I can't stand condoms but I can deal with that alot better than some nasty problem that could result from not using one.
Third weird, that any provider who does bareback and who also allegedly stays with you for hours without compensation can be classified as "high end". That made me chuckle a bit, no offense.
Nothing speaks to "puffing" like telling a story that on so many levels just smells wrong!
I'll assume that the OP left out a lot of the details that really happened here...perhaps for a reason?
the provider is a 10...i have seen a few before and she definitly is upper end...the first few times together she whipped out the protection...since than we have texted allot and when i saw her last time part of the six hours was dinner...when she didnt take out any protection i thought she must like me, becuase we seemed to have a great time together...i guess overall while its more pleasurable to have sex without the protection its not smart..
I'll assume that the OP left out a lot of the details that really happened here...perhaps for a reason?
So...
-she is a 10, yet you never reviewed her? You reviewed lots of girls as 6,7, etc but not this magical lady?
-she has known you for a bit and is ready to have sex with your without protcetion. Okay, she is an escort. But are you crazy? You know you are playing Russian rulette!
-you pay for an hour and stay for 6. That would not make me most ladies ATF. You do that once and you are blacklisted as a boundary pusher.
PLEASE DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE WHO IS CARELESS LIKE THAT WITHOUT A CONDOM! Go get tested and pray that you did not catch anything incurable.
your right i didnt review her yet.,.i only do this every so often and will post a review of someone i saw when i want tp jump back to vip to look at reviews...to be honest most of the woman i have seen have been from backpage/eros/cityvibe and most have been diaapointments.,,we were together 6 hours but that does include dinner..i guess what i am really asking if a provider is willing to go without protection and give you allot of free time, does she really like you or am i being stupid..and if she really likes you are you ok to go without protection? I guess looking at the responses the answer is no.
Your story is NOT new...and frankly it falls into the category of "I've fallen for a provider".
Go and read a few of these stories and you'll see your own story there as well!
You met her from an ad selling her "time" as an escort, provider, prostitute and so on. She earns a living by fucking other guys. Plain and simple. She is going BBFS with EVERY guy she is seeing...NOT just you. And you want to believe that she is "just that into you". She isn't, and if you want to test that theory simply start calling her, texting her, emailing her and keep on telling her that you want it all for FREE. You'll get your answer promptly as she puts you on her personal DNS list.
The gals are masters at illusion. You have finally found one that is able to mesmerize you more than the ones before her. No real problem, but recognize this for what it is, and nothing more. She really does like you...as long as you fill the envelope!
And think about what the upside to her is for going BBFS. Is she looking to have a daddy for her baby. Is she a drug/alcohol junkie that wants to "share" her STD's? Too many negative things here to consider anything positive. Remember how you met her, and that she is doing the same things with every John she meets.
Move on quickly as this is NOT a good situation despite your ego being stroked (in your own mind).
thanks...i guess i should have known better
if she really likes you, that could be an even greater problem than if she is just playing you.
For example, you might end up a daddy.
Either way, you should rethink this relationship.
I agree... Either she does this for her "regular clients"... unlikely you are the only one. OR She's falling for you. OR She figures you'd be a good daddy... payday!
Time to think with the big head!
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How does her liking you have anything to do with using protection??? If she didn't like you would there be a greater liklihood that you would get an std? Another thing is that you sound like you are bragging about getting free time. You smell like a player and also sounds like you are using her.
All my ladies come from Eros Guide and have been top-notch, gorgeous women.
Haven't tried any ladies that were less than $350.00/hr, maybe that is the difference. They also had numerous top-notch reviews.
My motto: find em, feel em, fuck em, forget em! If ya need more than that, get a REAL GF.
Always wear it with anyone you'd have sex with and also get tested.
Dream on!!!! You are very naive! Are you married or have a girlfriend? If so aren't you afraid to give her an STD? How long have you known this woman??? becaused she may also be texting, talking to other guys as well. And what makes you so special? Also do you make a lot of money? Because she may be trying to find a sugar daddy and maybe looking to possibly retire. Why don't you offer to pay for the six hours or are you too cheap to do so? I think you may be trying to manipulate her feelings to get something for free for your own ego. And why are you asking on the board for an answer that should be obvious to a grown man with any sense! I think you just want to brag about your latest conquest. You sound very selfish. How do you know she is high end btw??? Not that it makes any difference for condom use!
Perhaps she really is high-end. Maybe the "one hour" he pays for when he gets "six hours" costs $2000.
the reason i asked the question was more for how common is it for a provider to do this extra time-no protection? All the responses showed me its stupid to take a chance, at best nothing happens and at worst std-pregnant...as far as high end you definitly see the difference in the girls appearance and rates, and if she drives a lexus vs some beater, she is not bottom of the barrel. That said i apprciate everyones advice, bottom line is be safe,
you'll find that your definition of "high end" is not quite right.
A difference in a gal's appearance has very little to do with being "high end". Only her "rates" determine what it will cost you to find that out. And many guys have found this out the "hard" way. Many times the higher rate gals are NOT "more attractive" than a lower rate gal. All you should determine for yourself is looking at a gals site, the pics there, and make sure that the reviews suggest that she is indeed "a nice looking gal". While that is NOT a guarantee, it will minimize the disappointment factor.
And many of the "high end" gals don't drive cars. At least those that live in a large city (like Chicago) will use cabs and zip cars. So again, I wouldn't use what she "drives" (or doesn't) as any criteria of her being a "high end" babe.
Based on your reviews thus far, give some of the 9 & 10 gals a shot. They will be in the $ 300-400 range and I trust you'll find that most will give you the same illusion (sans the BBFS) that your OP gal is stroking you with. And DON'T expect OTC time. At least until you have spent some decent bucks on a gal and she is looking to make you more of a regular!
If you're ever back in ChiTown and looking for some ideas shoot me a PM.
You now have to decide whether you want the relationship, or sex with an interesting woman. When the two get confused, stuff happens like bareback vaginal penetration. If you hobby, avoid allowing the relationship to get to the point where BBFS is offered. If BBFS is offered, you put on a cover and explain to the provider that you don't feel comfortable having sex any other way.