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Curious about weight as a newbie
TheKeeper65 7 Reviews 2056 reads
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I am just wondering, say for a massage provider, does my weight have an impact on the service that will be provided. I mean I get it, at 5'8" and 280, I am not the best thing to look at. Hell, I might even gross myself out if I had to rub me.

But I also get most of the providers are professional. So being new to all this I was just wondering.

And thanks for the feed back.

faxinator677 reads

prefer a nice, clean, well-groomed "man of size" as they call them, versus a dirty, smelly, unkempt HWP guy any day. So don't worry about it. I'm 6'1" 250, but really broad-shouldered, and I could stand to drop 40 pounds to look good.

Heck, I should start on that right now...

Damn.

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vmalik554 reads

I have been in the hobby for 2.5 years now. Over the course of time, I have dropped 60Lbs. I have not noticed any difference in service before or after weight loss. Happy hobbying....

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TheKeeper65448 reads

Sorry for posting on the wrong board, and thanks for correcting. I guess that is a newbie mistake.

I do appreciate the feedback. ANd it all makes sense. Maybe recent lack of confidence. Your feedback helps!

Thanks

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London Rayne542 reads

but how you treat us. I doubt very seriously your weight is going to be an issue with someone who is being paid to make you feel like a king.

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KristaStarr453 reads

London is right doll , don't worry about your looks , as long as you are respectable, kind and sweet you will be just find :)

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saturnsky419 reads

It's all in how we  are treated. Most of us would prefer to see a sweet, respectful guy than a douche bag who looks like a GQ model.

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earthshined406 reads

and interpersonal attraction?  Is it not important, at all? And is there any way to determine this before making a date/ during screening?

This is something that is important (or something I worry about) to me. I do not assume a provider who accepts a request for a second date  automatically ignores that aspect.


As a comparison, if  I meet a woman who is clean, nice and respectful i would not necessarily want to get close to her, kiss or hug her but i might with another who had the same attributes.

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Ashleyann10438 reads

All I require from a client is that he is a gentleman during our time together.  Also, freshen up when you arrive as a courtesy.  You expect it from us, so show the same respect in return.  These two things will ensure you have a great time and are given the same service as everyone else.

Good luck!

Ashley Ann

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harborview398 reads

be squeaky clean...   you'll do fine.  I have medical issues that make it near impossible to exercise significantly.  I struggle with my weight.   I have never felt the services I recieved were down graded by it.

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OhCharlie417 reads

But he's the most beautiful person, and treats me in a way that would put most providers to shame. Because of this, I get school girl excited to see him, and I've never once been anything but absolutely attracted to him. I'm glad others have passed him up, and given me a chance to meet him.

Don't worry about your weight so much, and keep searching until you find a provider who makes you comfortable in your own skin when you're with her.

Good luck :)

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