What  if you want to use a condom for a bj and a dental dam for daty.  Lets say that the provider is going to engage in these activities unprotected.  How do you tell her that you want to use protection without seeming like a prick?

Also if she asks you to perform daty on her and you do not want to and say you don't, do you think her service will be affected, or would she care less?

I don't even know what I am doing down there with my mouth, is there any way that I could hurt her?  I don't want to do that.  Could I get some tips on what to do?

BTW, I have read through pages 1-10 of the Newbie Board, and I really appreciate all the guys/women who answer our questions.

Thanks

providers have their rules, so they should not be offended if hobbiysts have ruels to. Just say that it's your general rule and that it is not directed specially towards her. After that, it may well affect the sessoin but you have to chose for yourself what kind of risk you prefer: affecting the session or the possibility of getting an STD.

As far as knowing what to do "there", read the link to a thread that was just posted on the subject on the general discussion board, you'll find it quite informative. You can hurt her if you touch her clit too hard, or bite it or are rough, especially in the beginning when it's dry. So start by making it wet, be very gentle, and practise.

Good luck

M.

magiost,

Thanks for the valuable advice, the link, and for wishing me luck!

Take care,
Kevin

Thanks Spectator!

Kevin

I admit it, I can't find this new board. Spectator, would you post the direct link?

Thanks,

thirsty

Silly me

The Playing Safe site button is located right between ISO board and PS board.  It took me 10 months to realize that there is a legal board in TER  Below is the direct link for the Playing Safe board.

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I couldn't find the link just be refreshing the page but once I cleared the browser's cache, I found it.

Thanks again for the info.

thirsty